Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

is she stuck on him? should i keep at it?

i like my best friend. we went out and she broke it off for what i later found out was another guy.

she told him that she liked him. he didnt like her back.

she came back saying that attempted relationship was a rebound and she wanted me.

then she told me on christmas (what a bummer) that she had made out with him. still she said she didnt see her with him and losing me was going to "break her heart".

now she wants me again as more than her best friend. and i asked her what if she found out the other guy liked her. would she break up with me?

she couldnt answer me.

what do you think? anything helps. thanks.

Update:

should i keep at it? we had been best friends for almost 2 years before she kissed me back in may.

17 Answers

Relevance
  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Simple answer- shes screwed you over once, and she'll do it again. Dont believe her. Shes lying and not your best friend. Move on.

    Good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    If she couldn't answer, that's most likely because she knew you wouldn't like the answer. I'm guessing then the answer would be "yes." I'm sorry to say it, but it doesn't sound like she likes you enough to actually stay with you, be more than a fling.

    I would just stay as friends for right now. If in a while you still like her, you could see how its going with the other guy. Meanwhile, keep your eyes open for others you could date. Perhaps you'll find someone else you like even better :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If she couldnt answer such an important question then im pretty sure if the other guy like her she would choose him . Stay friends because thats way more important then a relationship. Try and find a girl who wants u no matter what .

  • 1 decade ago

    honestly, if you were to get back together can you really see you and her going far? if not then its not worth it. relationships are for getting married, and before you start looking they are for having fun, arguing and having to worry about cheating doesn't sound like fun, i would just break it off, dint be a rebound. you could just be a filler which my friends and i like to refer to them as, "guys that you go out with when no one good enough is around" dint be that guy, if its not gonna work then dont worry, be blunt and dont pull bs stuff. its a lot easier.

    btw im a chick and i know its prob not wat ya wanna hear and i am prob the only girl on the planet that will admit to this, but a lot of girls cant stand being alone. she prob doesnt like being alone

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    man, if I were you I'd leave this situation ASAFP (that's as soon as ****** possible). There are plenty of other potential females out there; don't settle for one that is going to undermind you and has the possiblity of leaving you at any second. I mean, if it's not a relationship you're looking for with this girl and you just want to have fun, then stick with it I guess but don't become emotionally attached cause' she aint the type, trust.

  • 1 decade ago

    If she screwed you over once I think she's capable of doing it again. If she sees that she gets attention from that other guy she'll enjoy it and probably go for him again. You guys should still be friends though. Later she'll realize what she was missing out on with you. Sorry.

  • 1 decade ago

    She is using you as backup and need to get her priorities in order. She passed you over without batting an eye and will more than likely do it again. What do you really want? Someone that treats you like number one or in her case number 9?

  • 1 decade ago

    she has some issues, and you must not keep at it. it only shows weakness on your part. Dont allow her to play head games with you. if she cant tell you, then basically you are wasting a lot of time. but you have to do whats right for you. be prepared for a heartbreak, if you choose to be with her.

  • 1 decade ago

    kk so if she is your best friend dont take the risk is loosing her just say no and still be friends because if u go out and she dunps you well mey not be friends again.

  • 1 decade ago

    i think you guys should still be friends....

    though i dont think u should try to get back with her

    she still likes the other guy

    so if you get back with her she might just break it off again no risks just stay friends with her

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.