Letter of Recomendation to a Divorce Court...?

start off by saying that you are not here to defend her or her ex husband, but you are here to defend the childrens, and you know that even though the parents argue and fight, the mother always has a smile on her face and a positive reaction to the children. make sure the letter involves the kids going to school, and making sure they eat healthy and other stuff that you see that's positive. pretty much, defend the children, by saying that they are better for the mother. and list reasons why and support that reason for an example.

Top 3 Things For a Personal Letter of Reecommendation-

1. You are in a position to know the candidate well.

Explain the nature and duration of your relationship with the candidate

2.You are qualified to make an accurate assessment.

The qualifications that are most relevant change from one situation to the next. For example, if you are recommending someone as the parent of an adoptive child, then you should make it clear that you understand what it takes to raise a child. In this case, your own experience as a parent is very relevant; it qualifies you as an expert. If, however, you are writing personal character reference letters that the candidate will use to try to make parole, then your parenting skills are of little relevance.

3.You are the kind of person whose opinion can be trusted and respected.

You don't have to be a captain of industry to provide an opinion that people can respect. However, impressive education credentials and a high social standing do count - so if there is something about you that is particularly imposing, then you should mention it.

Example-

Child Custody Reference Letter

I am writing in support of _________________ obtaining custody of his two minor children. I am his sister-in-law.

________________ is a caring and involved father. Those kids are the center of his life, and he has been there for them since day one.

Our children are about the same age, and play together often. When one of the kids needs help, _______________ is the first to offer it. When he built a tree house for his own children and mine admired it, he built another one at our house! He let the kids help, too, so they felt involved in the process.

_________________ would rather be a home, reading books to his kids or making up fun games, than anywhere else. I feel very safe leaving my own children in his care.

Please grant custody to my brother, in the best interest of the children.

O.K. Don't panic. Take your time. Whatever your write down you can change. When you are satisfied with everything you have written have someone check for spelling and grammar.

What you write has to come from your own heart and mind. You are the witness. Write what you saw and heard. Explain why you believe your friend is a good mom.

I will really advice u not to get involve on that, however if u really want to do something about it there are always samples letter that u might get at ur local library or ask her lawyer, but my best advice don't get involve

just write what you witnessed living there. and how attentive she was.and why you feel that she is a good mother

well you were good at writing this. so trust me you can do it. just put your thoughts on that piece of paper. you can do that