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do i have a chance with him?

im a sophomore in high school and i really like this one senior. the few times ive been able to hang out with him, he always makes me laugh, and i have a really good time with him. he can act like a jerk, but he is always kidding around. he is only a few inches taller than me, im 5"5' with long brown hair and dark brown eyes. i am skinny, but still healthy. i want to get to know him better, but i never get up the nerve to text or talk to him. any advice?

Update:

and he really isnt the player type. when i started liking him he asked out this other girl, so i thought i didnt have a chance, but his relationship didnt last but a week. he doesnt date often and is just a really nice guy. i just want him to notice me more....

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Honestly he sounds like a bit of a player. You should approach him and be honest about your intentions and ask about his. If he isn't ready to commit to a relationship then you should watch out.

    To lure him in you can do things that guys find irresistible. Men like a funny girl who can have intelligent conversation (if he doesn't then he probably isn't a quality guy).

    Just get the courage up to talk to him in person and if he is interested he should ask you out or at least as you to hang out with him.

  • 1 decade ago

    Other than get up the nerve to talk to him? No. I think communication is a fatal flaw of the dating community. I can't tell you how many times things have not worked out because girls were either too shy to talk to me or because they didn't want to hurt me by breaking it off. Word from the wise: be wise and use words. You can't fall unless you jump. And that's the truth, Ruth.

    Source(s): Do the right thing by Spike Lee, well for the "truth, Ruth" thing anyway.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i had the same kind of situation last year. except i was a freshman. this senior guy i had seen all year in the hall then towards the end of the year i was with one of my friends who was friends with him so he introduced us. the guy gave my friend his number he wrote down then he slipped it to me like you can hold onto this. i was like jhvsfdk:). i was so scared to text him or call him or anything. i waited a few days but then i was like well what the **** why not. he'll be gone in a few monthes and i'll never see him again so it doesn't matter if nothing comes out of it. anyway, i did and we dated for 4 monthes. so i say definitely go for it!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    either he likes you or he doesnt and your mking is worse on yourself by worrying about it. if you have his number just txt him or talk to him. Just say **** it and do it!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    suck it up && talk to him .

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