should i try it again or leave?

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I have a bf of 2 yrs we have a  year old son and we have our own place. on new years he broke up with me told me that we are better off as friends. he was good about it like right now he doesn't at like it hurts him. its been 4 days and yesterday he went out with his brother and didn't come home told his son that he was going to the playground with him but he went out... i just don't think i could stay here the only place that i have is my dads but i just didn't wanna go back to my dads i wanted to stay here and save money just move in to my sons room... he acts like nothing but that's what hurts me the worst that he doesn't care...... he expect me to be nice and act like we are bff. im hurt and i don't want to be nice.... what should  i do?

Aubrey · Accepted Answer

I hope you leave and go back to your dad's.  It would be the best thing for you.  Your bf sounds like he wants to go out and experience other woman, and you deserve someone who wants to be with you.

Halo Jones · Answer

You can't stay there sweetheart - and he's being incredibly selfish, expecting you to just accept this situation when you all live together with your son.

You could probably save just as much money living at your dads and you wouldn't have to put up with waiting for him to come in, wondering where he is and what he's doing. And what happens when he starts bringing mates and a new girlfriend back? Your son will probably be quite confused as it is so better to clarify things for him, and yourself, by taking him out of this environment.

He acts like it doesn't matter, goes out and doesn't come back (already? You've just broken up) and then left his son waiting for him to take him to the playground. Selfish and immature. Think it seems that he's looking for his freedom again. Leave, don't put yourself through this. Supposing it's breathing space he needs, and that you would even take him back, then that's not going to happen if you're still under the same roof.

Consider your dad's a temporary measure; and at least you'd have a built in babysitter so that you could go out and enjoy some deserved 'me time' as well.

Honestly, what a selfish jerk although he at least gets points for not suggesting you leave. You may have to make an equally fresh start this New Year, very very hard but this guy needs to grow up.

Take care.

peaches6 · Answer

Swallow your pride and move in with your dad.  That way you can save money and won't have to put up with your boyfriends b.s.  He knows you're dependent on staying with him. . . that's why he's acting the way he is.  Move on and forget that loser!  Good Luck!

Mysterious Chick` · Answer

a shelter is ok 
i dont know what you should do tho
saving money is a good idea
hope tha best for you
& im mad for what he did. -_-

Christie Brucks · Answer

he broke up with you. what else CAN YOU DO? you have to leave? what about shelter living for a bit?

Jordan K · Answer

you should be fake nice to him and whe you have enough money, leave...or kick him out

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