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I need help with a guy problem..... I need as much answers I can get.?

Okay here it goes. I have been dating this guy for 3 months now. He says that he likes me and all that good stuff. He says that he wants to see me and he calls me babe, sweetie, and things like that. Well, the other day when we was texting he said that he just wants to be friends but friends with benefits. And the bad part about it is because I don't want that. I want something more because I really like him. We want different things from each another. He says if a relationship starts up then it happens.

I just don't know what to do. I am really really confused and I want to hear from ya'll what I could do or if ya'll could help me out with this. I am begging for ya'lls help because I am totally confused and I need help....

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  • 1 decade ago
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    kick his *** to the curb and find urself a real man who can be committed to you.

  • 1 decade ago

    ok, sorry to sound harsh, but: Why do you "want something more" from someone when they obviously aren't interested? If he calls you "babe" and wants to be "friends with benefits".... I say get the heck out of that deal and find someone who understands and appreciates you more. A bit more serious advice would be to not "want more" from someone until you're relationship as mutually gone to a whole new level. That way, you avoid getting hurt (as much) in the end. And btw, why do people text things of such importance? Find someone who enjoys talking with you and whom you enjoy sharing audible conversation with. Hope that helps. Good luck and may you be blessed with a truly happy, successful relationship soon!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well it sounds like he wants what he said, sex with no strings attached. I mean it takes two to make relationship work and he said maybe a relationship will start up, but if he really doesn't want that, he's not going to ask you to be in a long-term relationship like that... Think about what you really want, cause as far as I can tell, you want different things. Hope this helps!

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    What i think of U ought to do is, first u ought to tell this guy that u do no longer probably like him an u basically desire to be friends with him. next element u ought to do is basically ignore approximately ur friends(i had an identical concern in 9th grade yet I basically disregarded them and that they only stopped conversing approximately it). yet another element if that doesn't artwork is stumble on the broken record technique(it is the place u say an identical element repeatedly returned,) do no longer substitute any words or they're going to shop questioning that in the event that they malicious program u long adequate they gets something greater out of u.i do no longer think of that anybody will incredibly keep in mind the area on Monday so basically dangle returned and in the event that they start to malicious program u then use those recommendations:)

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  • 1 decade ago

    Don't agree to something you aren't comfortable with, no matter how much you like him. If he really liked you he wouldn't suggest just being friends with benefits. It sounds to me like he wants to see other people and also keep you around in case nothing else works out. Don't settle for that. You deserve better and you'll just end up feeling bad about it.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you want something more tell him. The thing is everybody wants something out of a relationship. You want love he wants something else.

    People don't fall in love because they are scared of entanglement. If you really want love then you should try falling in love with someone who loves you. Don't worry about what is going to happen in the future just tell him as best as you can that you don't want to be a friend with benefits. And that you are expecting to be loved in return.

  • 1 decade ago

    Be his friend and move on.... No benefits.... Just friends if he doesn't like that then tell him you either have all of him or he gets NONE of you..... I have been in a situation with being friends with benefits and it wasn't pretty. You will only get hurt in the end.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He thinks your cool, but does not see you two having a relationship.If you do not want to be friends with "benefits"- just be his friend and NOTHING more.Better to have his respect,miss the benefits and then maybe then he can discover if you are the girl for him.But do for yourself first,don't be at his beck and call you will regret it if you are.

    Source(s): experience
  • 1 decade ago

    dump his sorry ***.

    ive been down that path and as soon as hes got all he can out of you hell just toss u down and walk away.

    im sorry to say that and its probs not something u want to here but i hav 2 say it.

    good luck..

    hope this helps. :]

    Xxx

  • 1 decade ago

    don't do it. it will never develop into a relationship like you want. you have your standards and you should never compromise them for anyone. trust me girl. make him chase u, if not you'll only end up hurt.

    Source(s): been there, done that, cried like a baby
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