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Should I start a relationship?

I'm not a new to this but it's just a little complicated and I need a 2nd opinion. I'm 18, and lets just say I'm not too good with girlfriends. My relationships end quickly, like 1-2 weeks. Either because she breaks up with me, or I break up with her for some reason. Like, easy sex (total turnoff), loss of feelings, etc etc. Well I just met this girl and I think shes great. We've been hanging out for a while now. And she's already slept in my bed, I got home from the hospital that morning, she waited up for me. It was an emergency hospital and she didn't want to leave me there. Then we crashed at my place for the night. I'm kinda glad we didn't have sex, because I think it totally ruins the possibility for a relationship, you know there's like nothing really to look forward to. I'm just not sure if I should start a relationship with her soon or not.

Suggestions? Ideas? Tips?

Update:

and also she seems like she likes me and wants me totally. She bashed her ex-boyfriend on the phone while I was with her. But I know she talks to other guys. How can I be sure she's gonna go with it.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Your failed relationships are due to the patterns that you repeat each time you get into one and it fails once again.

    Why not try something different, to see how it works out.

    Like, for this one, try holding off with the sex for a little while.. Who knows, you might like sex and the person a bit better if you actually know them intimately first.

    Just take things slow man. It's not a race.

    Good luck.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes, do start a relationship but keep in mind that you shouldn't have sex for at least some time, unless you both feel like it, having sex has a weird impact on relationships as if done too early it ruins it and if too late both sides might get bored until then. Good luck.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think you should go for it! She seems like your kind of girl, and you shouldnt pass this up!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    she is a good type and they dont come around aften. you would be a idiot to cheat on her os something.. thats what my ex did. i broke up with him staight away..

  • 1 decade ago

    NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOo

    if you have to ask definatly not.

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