how should i tell my parents that i love a girl? I love her and my parents a lot...?

i don't get it?

why are you so afraid?

izit coz your a girl too?

Dear Ajay, Don’t take me wrong buddy, but what is happening with the young generation of our country, yes we are living in the 21 century, yes we are modern but does modernization only means the freedom to wear mini skirts, have affairs in schools and colleges, have sex without being married, or have love marriages without even telling the parents? The first mistake you did was getting married without even asking your parents, its marriage dude not buying a car. Marriage is not just you two it involves whole families from both sides, in India it’s a marriage of the two families rather than just the couple. The second mistake you did was not disclosing this to your respective families and hoping that they wont even ask, and you were dumb enough to let it continue when she got engaged to this guy the same time you got married, that was the time you both should have put your cards on the table and let everyone know that you are married. That first guy refused the proposal that’s the reason she came back to you otherwise she would have married that guy and you wouldn’t have had any clue about it. Ok she apologized but you still you did not disclosed your marriage, which I feel she was not doing it as her elder sister was not married at that time and if she disclosed this marriage and decides to stick with it then her parents would have disowned her and when this news would have spread then no one in her community would have agreed to marry her elder sister, now when she is married and she might have seen the reaction and she also might have seen what she is missing (however irrelevant) if she remains married to you or might have broken down in front of her parents, and she has changed her mind and want a divorce now. Now when you have filed for a divorce then why delay it, better go there and get it over with and start your new life, its never late to start a new life, have a new beginning. Forgive and forget her and begin a new life by getting married with your parents approval, and I am sure she will be a good wife and you two will be happy together. And about that suicide, well that’s also not a bad idea you can commit suicide leave a note with her name on it, so that her parents can bribe the police and close the case while your parents are torchers your parents and they are left alone crying and suffering with no son for the rest of their lives.

well you start by telling them that you want to have a serious talk with them,

Then once they sit down make them understand how much u love them and care and respect them.

then slowly bring your girlfriend or whoever she is into it and let them take it in for a few minutes if the discussion gets heated then maybe tell them that she makes u happy and do they want u to be happy or miserable.

GOOD LUCK

the best way for me was to just introducer into your family at first. parents arent stupid so they cn tell what yall should be feeling. if they say somethin answer. if not just kinda add her to the family. it works

Just tell them. If they're good parents they'll understand.

No need to... With such a name, the girl will never love you back ;)

how old r u? if ur younger then 14, they would say dat ur too young