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how do you get over a guy?

i really like this guy, but nothing will ever become of it

how do i get over him?

i dont want to become upset knowing that we will never be together, i dont want to be thinking about him all day long, i dont want my heart to skip a beat when i see him anymore, i dont want to feel all self conscious around him wondering what he is thinking, i dont want to care what he thinks about me anymore, i dont want to count the days untill i see him next

i just dont want to feel like this anymore!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Go out with your friends. Have a laugh and get your mind of him, by meeting someone else

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, I really wish I could give you all the steps to getting over a guy but you just can't. Everyone goes by their own timing... And some people tend to get over people faster than others. You could start with not caring what he thinks of you though... And really focus on other things important in your life. I'm sure you got other people that are more important then this one guy. There will be better people out there for you. Trust me. This is personal experience...

    Source(s): Personal experience.
  • 1 decade ago

    If you want to cry-just cry. Its like therapy. It's going to make you feel better. First step is always letting it all out. If you wanna scream, scream. Just do it in your room, not in school :)) Maybe write in a notebook about how much you feel betrayed--do whatever you do to let our your anger or grieve. After all of that, just look forward. Start moving on. I know, everyone says that. Its hard at first, maybe you could try keeping yourself busy, take a class and meet new people--that would be fun. Enjoy being single! Once you see how much fun you can have without him-you'll be happy! Its gonna take a while though, remember that. After all of this maybe you could start dating again-when your ready :) Good luck.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Let go. See that there is no sense in still being heartbroken, regretful, and having hatred toward that person. Realize that although your relationship with that person was very unique and special in a lot of ways, all good things must come to an end. And when they do, that's when you see all the flaws in your relationship and that it's best that you aren't together. Check out Minekey for more opinions: http://minekey.com/

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    think about other things, maybe about other guys that you liike or are interested in.... talk 2 the girls and just think about all the other oppertunitys hes one guy and theres a whole world of guys out there that would be prefect to you. try to cut off your ties with him.. like msn ect and if he sees you everyday maybe just try to stay away from him

    hope this helps :P

  • 1 decade ago

    sometimes u needa think wth ur head and not ur heart. think of him as an investment. if the guy is not putting in as much time, energy or effort as you are, for whatever reason he has. its time for you to move on. i dunno why us girls are always waiting on guys when we got a wonderful life to lead. how to get over him? well takes time. but all i can say is, busy yourself with ur life, make an effort to forget him and one day when u wake up and his name pops into ur head, you wont feel anyting anymore. gl (:

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    pur uw,i kno the feeling,best ting i found to do is occupy your mind to a point were you have no time to tink about him at all,and the best ting to do is not spend too much time with him,wen you ar with him keep conversation short and sweet letting him kno your moving on with life even thought at time you wana throw yourself at him jst to be in his arms,my main advice chin up,keep strong,occupied,and beautyful and then the world is at your finger tips xoxo

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hi ...You Direct Tell To This Guy..I Like You Or I Love You.....

  • 1 decade ago

    amm stop thinking about him and do something so you wont think of him

    or ask those girl that brake up with their boyfriend and 5 minutes later they have a new one lol

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Simply, just tell yourself : "I can get over it." and everytime you get a thought, shrug it off. continue on this program and you will forget over time.. also let your interest in other guys be free .

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