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My boyfriend and I are'nt communicating like we should.How can I approach this and talk to him?

There has been alot of stess lately from other things.How do we deal with that without attacking each other??I suggested couseling

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Don't attack each other over other things. It won't fix them or make them go away. Pull together against other things, and just have fun together.

    That's what a relationship is all about. When u start to make a relationship into a heavy thing, it's not enjoyable anymore.

    Relationships are meant to be enjoyable and rewarding.

    If it turns into a heavy monkey on the back kind of experience, someone is going to be shedding the monkey.

    Hoping the best for U

    Me! :- )

  • 1 decade ago

    well i would ask you this? why are you not communicating? did you realize if you were really crazy about each otehr this would not be an issue? yes that is true. i mean if i were you i would jsut chalk it up to get rid of him and move on and find someone to love and stop fighting and stuff its not worth it. it never gets better.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    talk calmly about it. get everything out into the open and let each other know how ya'll are feeling. it's important not to hold things in!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just let him know you want to talk more and share your feelings more. Let him know you dont want to argue but talk things out. If you dont talk now then it will lead to trouble later.

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  • Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    If you think you need councelling, then just break up with him instead.. Councelling is just a sign that you don't like each as much anymore.

  • 1 decade ago

    jus sit down and talk to him about it and tell him how u feel

    try mine

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=200901...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    when you talk to him... don't say things like "i wish you would" or "you should have"

    instead say it like "I think I should" or "I think it would be better if"

  • 1 decade ago

    call him, go somewhere nice and tell him what you need to

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