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10 month anniversary... i want something nice to do for her. ^_^?

Okay, so January 20th is my 10 month anniversary with Clarissa. i love her so much... I want something really nice to do for her. But the thing is, I'm not allowed to see her outside of school cause her parents hate me. so it has to be something doable at school and we both ride the bus so i can't bring in anything huge. I'm stumped as far what to do. I don't want anything normal or predictable, like flowers(she said she doesn't want any) poem(done this tons of times) little gifts(again, done this, do so a lot), anything like that. i want something special.... please, any ideas? i really need help here.

i hate not being able to see her, and i know it's hurtful for her as well.... there's not way around it for the time being though....

Oh, also, my family doesn't know about us, or anything about me, so it cant' be something too out there, and can't decorate her locker, we share one with another friend of ours, so yeah. lol

Update:

we ride different buses, and we're already engaged. lol. i use the words girlfriend and fiance interchangeably, mostly cause ppl assume her to be a he when i simply say fiance. lol

Update 2:

yeah, not expensive rings, but she gave me a ring, and later on a gave her one too.

and as far as lying, well, she's on a short leash right now, her parents hate me and she got in trouble(why they hate me) so yeah.... >.<

Update 3:

and she won't kiss me now. she said it hurts too much.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Remember, in two months you are going to have to come up with a one-year anniversary idea. I'd do something small, like a card or a note, for now, and do something bigger then. You are under so many restrictive conditions that you don't want to shoot your wad, so to speak, on a doable idea now and be stuck for one then.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ok this is going to sound so cheesy but what the hell ok you can get her a ring or bracelet and have it engraved expressing your love for her in code and that way no one not her parents or your other friends can read only you two and you can hide it some where and give her a map to look for it. I know so corny but I have the weirdest imagination Good Luck. Happy anniversary.

  • 5 years ago

    first pretend you never asked this question. secondly flow on with your existence. anniversary, refers to years. so that is not obtainable to have a 10 month anniversary. being jointly for ten months, is this particularly something you desire to rejoice? why ten months? what makes it the style of huge deal? did you rejoice a million-9 additionally? whilst handling anniversaries, each and every three hundred and sixty 5 days is signified via a various merchandise. like silver gold diamond and issues like that. i think that i study someplace that ten months is properly known with bubblegum. so a %. of juicy fruit(plenti-%.) could desire to do the trick properly.

  • I like the outside of school idea. say ur meating up with friend for a project. take her to dinner an have a good time. after take her to a park or a movie or something and have a little private time with her. make her feel glad that shes with you. play her favorite song and try to get her to kiss you.

    idk just something i was gonna do with my x on our 2 year annaversery but he turned out to be an asshole and he moved 1500 miles away cause of his dads job.

    congrats! good luck. hope i helped.!!!!

    Source(s): i wish our plan would have been caried out.
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    wow that sucks, u could always just lie and say ur going to hang out with freinds and then meet her some where, thats what i do lol, so my parents dont know im dating, im a private person. ughhh u can give her a promise ring even tho i think thats gay, apparenty a lotta teens do that. u can get her a flower and hide it in ur bag, ughh, u should just try lieing and hanging out outside school lol,

    Source(s): are u ACTUALLY engaged, like an actual ring, thats so much commitment
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe you make her a custom T shirt on zazzle.com, or you could make a mix cd of all the songs that remind you guys of each other. Or you could give her a framed picture of you to put in her room :-} Happy anniversary!! *Hugs*

  • 1 decade ago

    Get her a neclace with a lock and put a small picture of you inside.

    P.S get the lock with a key so her parents don't see you inside of it.

    Hope i helped And good luck!

    Source(s): My brain
  • Dao
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Write her a little letter, filled with words from the heart. And then give her a biggggg smooch. :)

  • aww how sweet:) congrats!

    Um I would say, maybe pack a special Lunch both of you can enjoy?

    do you guys share a lunch hour?

  • s hari
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Go to church/temple or your place of worship and pray for her good health and happiness.

    And don't do anything which hurts her at all.

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