Partner having problems when having sex?

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This is a very personal question but I am very confused and don't know where else to ask. I have been having sexual encounter with this guy for a couple of months now. The first time we had sex, he acted like he really wanted it and like if he was really really horny but when it got down to things his penis was down? It took a little work to get it up....now I have noticed several times that he has trouble bringing it up and it goes down very easily? My real concern was this past weekend. We were about to do it when he said he was going to the restroom and I noticed he tied some kind of rubber band or something around his penis, towards the end where his testicles are at? I didn't want to start asking questions because I did not want to ruin the moment as it was a very Special night for us. We did it twice with his using that, and he did ejaculate. But then we did it again like after four hours and he was fine, he was not using the rubber band and it was very hard? But then when I asked him if we could change positions it went down, but he kept trying and got it back up??? I just don't know what to think?

Update:

He is 37 and I am 23. He is a very healthy man works out about two hours, three times a week.

Tony S · Accepted Answer

What you appear to be describing is E.D. and it can be dangerous to wrap rubber bands around the base of your penis.  It also seems from what you have stated, that his E.D. is caused from low blood pressure, that is inconsistent (for example, sometimes he is ok and sometimes he is not).  Not knowing his age, it could be caused by high blood pressure, diabetes, high cholesterol, and (the worst) prostate cancer.  You need to help your partner get a physical to make sure that his problem is treatable.  Good Luck

puyallupbassman · Answer

Sometime a guy can get so excited about sex he gets worried and it can effect his erection. In my opinion the best thing you can do for him is take control of the pace. Keep it nice and even and make him feel like you're enjoying yourself without "needing" the erection. caress and kiss and rub all kinds of parts and it shouldn't take too long before he's ready on his own.

When he is ready keep it non-threatening.Slow and steady with lots of "vocal" encouragement. ;) Hope that helps.

cobrasnake · Answer

Good question.First at all,depend how older is he and how wealthy is him.Second you need to talk with him, ask him, if he had those problems before.Maybe he will need to see a doctor,and the doctor can give to him some vitamins,or something else.This situation happen to many men around planet earth.
Sometimes men are too nervous with their partner,and need to know better their partner; to feel very comfort indeed.Talk with him.Good luck.

Anonymous · Answer

Go get some sex toys and a movie.  It's probably him and he just can't get aroused or stay.  He could be tierd having ED problems who knows.  If it worked before it should work now.  Unless of course your asking him to do it 5 times a days or something.

? · Answer

i know you suggested he hasn't had the decrease surgical operation yet.... yet while he's a "tranny en direction" then he's on male hormones already. those hormones boost the HELL out of the intercourse force. it is my expertise that transmen could desire to proceed taking male hormones for something of their lives. If it is actual, then i could advise the two upping your libido or heading in a clean direction with a much less "hormonally endowed" companion. solid success.

Mean Carleen · Answer

He has problems substaining an erection.  This issue seems to be more common now more than ever.  It sounds like he is using something that works.  If not, he can see his doctor and they can prescibe something.

mumzzy · Answer

I think you and him need to go to the doctor and see what are some situations

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nadie entendia mi nick asi que lo cambie · Answer

Hes defenetly has erection problems. You should ask him to go to a doctor.

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