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does my roommate hate me?
my college roommate doesn't seem to like me. i switched dorm rooms during fall semester because of issues with my last roommate. she told me when i met her that she doesn't talk much and she has to get to know a person but she just seems so cold for some reason. she didn't have a roommate before i came. i see her all the time with her friends and she seems so different.she seems talkative and social. our suite mates next door are really nice and they told me that she was the same with them before i came and still is. so do you think she is just not very social with me because i moved in on her space, she just doesn't like me, or just doesn't talk to people she doesn't really know? i mean we have been roommates for months now. i barely see her during the week anyways. maybe like 3 hours out of the week or less. plus she doesn't even sleep here. i guess she stays at her friends rooms or boyfriend. i've only seen her sleep in this room maybe 4 times. and she only really stays in here on the weekends when i go home, i know because i walk in and see her sometimes when i have to come back to pick up a book i forgot or something. i'm not out to get her attention or even make her like me. i just wanna know why she kinda ignores me whenever i try to talk to her. everytime she walks in i try to strike up a conversation but she like barely answers or just doesn't at all like i annoy her. so what do you think is her problem? or am i just being way too sensitive?
serious and honest answers. thanks in advance :)
18 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
We really can't know what is going on in the mind of your roommate for sure. My best guess is that she feels that she doesn't have to talk to you because you are now her roommate. I mean, you did say that you see her all the time with her friends. She probably doesn't consider you her friend, just cuz you are her roommate. As long as you both respect eachother's space, there should be no other problem besides the lack of comunication. Its frustrating I can see that. I mean someone that you share such a personal space with, you would expect that they be a little more social and interested in getting to know that person they live with, but its just an expectation not a fact. I suggest you focus on you, and your present friends and when your roomate is ready to communicate with you, let her make the move.
Good luck.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
ok, people are just being mean with the ''yes''answers. Honestly, I feel like I kind of know a girl like this. I think i understand what her problem is. She hates the fact that your sharing rooms with her, and otherword she is being a bit of a bi*ch because she is trying to show you that she has better friends than you, and you are just a random girl who she doesnt care about. Thats how some people are. She's probably one of those girls who sticks with specific friends and wants other girls to think that she is too important to be friends with other's-such as you. If i were you i wouldnt worry about it, just continue saying hi so that she doesnt mess up your part of the room, and don't be mean. After all, she is only your roomate, you dont have to be friends with her. You might not want to get on her bad side, because that might end up being a disaster. She probably doesnt hate you, unless you've done something to her that you didnt mention in the description. The thing with her is basically-she thinks she is too important for you.
- 1 decade ago
why did someone just type that ho answer- the little wanker!
i think u should ask her to watch a film, go to eat or for drinks, be straight and say i'd like to get to know u more, as we are living together!
she could be shy, or she could just not give a **** n be someone who thinks i already have my mates, i dont need to be friends with u, but this is prob because she liked having her own room
xxx
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- SeekerLv 61 decade ago
Some people just like me-space, no big deal. If you want go out and get drunk with her but you pay for it. She will tells you what is on her mind.
Me for example, I can rent out my other rooms for extra money but I don't want other people to invade my space. God! I love money.
- 1 decade ago
Some people have trust issues. It can take a while for people to warm up to you. You should try to find something you have in common with her.
- 1 decade ago
You are being to sensitive. There are people who are super shy and have trouble talking to people that are not there closest friends just make small talk about school work and slowly become closer to her.
Source(s): Personal - 5 years ago
Next time she smokes weed, all you have to do is pick up the phone and call the police. Problem solved and she will be booted out.
- 1 decade ago
you need to confront her and see why she doesnt like u
but u may not like waut she says
u guys will be roommates wether she likes it or not
Source(s): minti m