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Hey guys, need some advice ?

I like this girl, she is my best friend.She likes me very much.She is open to share any of her feelings to me. she is my classmate. from the past few days I'm attracted towards her. My friends say I'm attracted to her, very much attached to her. sHe went to her hometown for week and i am feeling lonely like never before. I don't want to ruin our friendship by saying i love her or i have crush on her. what is the best i can do for this girl ? how can i make this relationship go ahead? what do i do now

help needed i am desperate need to of some smart and genuine advice

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Remember to be yourself at all times and ask her open questions. Open question will get her to explain things... The reason why you want to ask open questions is because it will help you see what type of woman she is. Ask questions relevant to dating. But before you do this, make sure you make it clear that you are attracted to her. As far as you know she may not have the same feelings for you. It's best to elaborate you are attracted to her allurement and you would like to take the friendship relationship to the next level. Heed this warning though! She is your best friend, so you may jeopardize your friendship with her if she takes things the wrong way... It's best to tell her that you are growing a mutual crush on her... If she is your true friend she may just think it's cute or she may like you as well and the two of you have a relationship. Just humbly tell her that you a growing strong feelings for her. Pray about it! That's your best option bro! I have faith that you will be able to talk with her about this!

    God bless!

  • 5 years ago

    Turn on: Nice hair. Good perfume. Silky dresses (haha, that's just me). A good smile. Someone who likes holding hands. Turn off: Too much make-up. Unhygienic. Fake laughter. Humor in a girl is always nice but I think most guys like to think that they're the funny ones. If you can hold an intelligent conversation, it's a real plus. A lot of girls like to be asked about themselves but so do guys. It's the easiest thing to talk about. Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sounds like you really into her. I suggest you tell her how you feel and see how it goes dude. But remember this, if you both take the next step your relationship will most likely never be the same again. It's a chance worth taking in my opinion.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i had a conversation only yesterday lik this with Steve my best friend who i've grown feelings for and he does and we've talked about gettin together but both agreed not yet cause we didn't wanna ruin our friendship but yesterday a mutual friend encouraged me to bring up my feelings with him again so i did and basically told him that he was my cup of tea and was scared of waitin till the time wa right because i don't want it going cold and stale,and now he's gone off to Manchester for a match so we've both agreed to take the time to think about us and see wat happened,feltso much better talking to him openly tho,hope it helps

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    This has happened to me before and trust me you DONT want to wait and get to know her more. You have to go straight out and ask her out as soon as possible. No bullshiting just straight up. If you like her..? ask her out..why not? dont hesitate..dont tell yourself that u will ask her out one day. You have to do it NOW or else you will NEVER know.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well it sounds like your trying to rush things,take it slow.get to know her really good!i mean girls hate when they are being rushed into a relationship

    Source(s): me
  • 1 decade ago

    mate just get her some flowers .. and see if she will put them in her house .. then ask if you can look at them with her ..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    uhp, just be like ohhhhh hey, like'in anyone new? you never know.

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