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i need some advice with my dad! plz HELP!!!!?
hay, I need some advice because my dad is Very ..."aggressive" and my teachers ade concerned about why im coming to school all broosed and cut up and im 17 if that helps and plz help i need some advicee
9 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Your teachers are doing their job if they are worried, dear.
They have their job because the care about young people.
They've gone through all the training required to be in a position to help kids, and will have access to some helpful resources.
Speak frankly and privately with someone at school who you trust. See what options they can suggest. Make clear what you want out of this. What do you want?
Does your mom live with you, too? What are her thoughts on this? Do you have siblings? How are they affected?
You could get emancipated (legally independent) and live with a friend until you finish High School.
I am sorry that you are having this issue. I think that you will find that you are not alone, though.
One last thing:
Do some reading on the long term affects of abuse by a parent. There are some serious long term remifications. You could become aware of them now in order to keep them from haunting you and your relationships for the rest of your life.
I am not a doctor or a professional in this field. I hope that you get to talk to one.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Wells move out or try to go some where like a councler or something so that you and your dad can sort this out. But whatever you do dont let him touch you he may be your father but he had no right to lay his hand on you like that. Tell one of your teachers because if you do he might end up relaly hurting you someday worse then what you may be going threw. if you dont feel like oding that see if you can move with a friend a family member someone
- 1 decade ago
Well i am 15 about 16 and i am sorry about that. Me i would kill the sun of a *****. I kick my friend dad *** because he hit her. Also You need to tell somebody if he is hurting you. That is the only way. I could kick his ***. lol Hope You ok
- 1 decade ago
is ur dad aggressive as in beating you?
i think u need to talk to some one and let them know whats goin on.
r u cuttin ur self? bc of ur dad? dont let ur dad get to you.
did u go talk to ur school yet? im not really sure what to make of this bc im not sure what u mean by aggressive.... if hes layin hands on you. then u need to go to the school or the police.
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- 1 decade ago
they should be concerned, there is no reason for a father to be aggressive. You are describing abusive if you are bruised and cut
- U_S_S_EnterpriseLv 71 decade ago
If he is physically assaulting you - you need to tell someone.
Your teacher, the police, social services - anyone.
Nothing more to it - don`t wait toolong.
- 1 decade ago
Are you getting abused by your dad?
If so, don't be scared to act, do something.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
go to police