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I like this guy, but don't know how to tell him?
Ok so i've like this guy for two years, but in silence. . . only my two best best friends know. but our band banquet is coming up, and i want to ask him, but i'm afraid of losing him. . . What should i do?
18 Answers
- 1 decade ago
I suggest taking him as a friend, as a casual invite. If he looks unsure than say your taking friends too, then arrange for some of your friends (and boyfriends if they have any) to come along. During the band banquet, see if you can talk to him and get to know him better. If he seems like a cool guy then maybe nod your head to the dance floor-if there is one. Maybe follow up with him a couple days later and see if he wants to go to a movie. I hope everything works out for the best.
- 1 decade ago
I THINK THE BEST THING TO DO
is
(first you throw the line with the worm into the water)
talk to him more than usual
like talk about things his into
ask him to help you with your homework.
hang out with him more
and thennnnn
(when the fish is bitting)
ask him nicely and as a FRIEND
if he would acompany you to this band thing.
then at the banquet make you last move
(and reel the fish innnnnn)
This has definetly worked for me!!!
good luckkkk
- 1 decade ago
Deary,
Here in England the custom is to approach your one love with frog legs. But other culture's customs are quickly catching on. I would reccomend this. Have fun at your banquet and best of luck!
Elizabeth.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Just ask him. I'd ask a friend to a dance with me even if I wanted to stay just friends, because it would be fun.
Hang out with him more. If you never hang out with him and talk to him he'll never know. If you guys hang out and talk all the time, do stuff together, etc.-- the relationship will either naturally grow or not. You'll see by how he reacts, if he makes time to spend with you, etc.
After you know him better you start thinking about getting into a relationship with him, but for now just have fun! He'll still be your friend and if it happens to be more, it does.
Don't screw up your friendship by worrying too much and stressing over how to ask him, etc.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
well i think if u come out of no where n say u like him ..hed b a lil weirded out considerin how long uve known him...
if i were u id try to sum how get him to notice u or like u ..possibly have 1 of ur friends let him in on ur feelings...guys r easily curious n wanna kno more so id guess hed try to get to kno u more n eventually bring up what ur friends told him....n u jus go along w/it
get to kno him n then express how u feel
- 1 decade ago
well it depends are you too friends? do you flirt with him? if not than you need to make that happen, and if you are friends than just pull him to the side and let him know that you like him and have liked him for 2 years be honest with him the more you wait the more he is going to slip out of your hands well good luck!
- 1 decade ago
ok first get the facts:
does he have a girlfriend?
if not just ask him...i wish i had the courage to do things like this but just act casual and if he says no then dont act heartbroken and sad right in front of him...just be like ok then i'll see ya there! if u dont let things get awkward they wont...but first...say hi to him or something...show him how kool u are...that way if u ask he'll be like shes kool...
- 1 decade ago
its just a question - go for it... you'd forever live in wonder and regret if you didn't ask,
the worst thing will be that he says no... but if you are good friends in the first place, then you will both still stay as close as you are..
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You're clearly not getting anywhere in the silence, and you gotta find out if he'd be at all interested in you, otherwise you're wasting your time.
- 1 decade ago
Just go for it or you'll regret never trying! good luck! Have confidence, Im sure he'll say yes girlie!