POLL: Why are some guys always so hard?

lol. In my case, it gets hard...

to talk to women because I'm shy.

It's a fact that men and women think differently, so its just one of those things as men don't give as much attention to details as women do. Also men get better with this with age. More importantly, many girls/women usually talk to a man not directly or something close, but using body language, eyes, pauses, touch, rather than straight up discussion which most guys are used to but then moan that: "he doesn't understand me". So sometimes, hard as it may be, use a little bit more direct/tactful language I(depending on the topic too lol) and for men, pay attention not only with your ears, but the eyes and the body language and just plainly suss your woman out as you definitely learnt to understand your mum whilst growing up.

Hey don't stereotype me, I'm the minority here! I'm not hard to talk to. The hard part is just getting people that want to talk back with me, no one I know is deep enough to carry on a long deep conversation with.

Good thing you added to talk to. It's not hard to talk to me. Not all guys are like that, sometimes it hard to talk to a guy because they might like that girl.

Why are most women so hard to talk to? It's about time at least some of you have experienced this.

Because all guys think about are 2 things!

1. Sex

2. themselfs

Cuz there to busy thinking about there next move, so that they seem cool, so it's hard for them to carry on a conversation

They're English United fans with a poker disability?

Mostly shy, sometimes they just dont really know what to say, you have to find something you both know something about to break the ice and go from there...basically a comfort thing.

some guys' personality just isnt talking. if you look into their eyes you can probably tell what their thinking