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How do guys really feel about women asking THEM out? What reasons stop guys from asking?

Update:

Great feedback! Thank you. So if hes nice and flirty could it be that maybe hes interested? Movie or cook dinner, which is better? BTW Girls/women have the same issue...possible rejection.AGGGGGHHHH!

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  • 1 decade ago

    I would love for a girl to ask me out. It puts the stress off me, and i know that the girl is most likely already interested, therefore makes the situation much less stressful.

    The reasons many guys do not ask girls out is because too many guys see girls as very intimidating. Many guys have been rejected time and time again and are so fearful of that, that they would rather not even try, opposed to them possibly getting rejected and having a hard blow to there self-esteem.

    I hope this helped ! Good Luck !!!

  • 1 decade ago

    I didn't mind when a girl asked me out. I enjoyed it...it took the pressure off of me, for once.

    Guys don't ask either because they are not interested or they are afraid of being turned down and made to feel foolish.

    Most young guys feel awkward and have very little self confidence. Add the responsibility of having to ask a girl out.....and a turn down is just devastating to some of them.

    So if you turn one down, be kind. If you never want to go out with him, keep turning him down...don't just make excuses...just say no thank you.

    Source(s): Experience
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