is it wrong for a 30 yr old guy to date a 21 year old woman?

If she is okay with it I can't say anything but I wouldn't go out with a 31 year old and I am 22. That is me though

Heck no, there's nothing wrong with him. If he's got what it takes to interest an older woman, I say he should go for it. There was a popular song some years back that said it all: Older Women Make Better Lovers"! In the real world, it is not at all unusual for a man to date and even marry a woman older than himself. I did it, and the result is four fine children.

nope, but depends how it is. age is just a number but it depends on the situation, like if your a creepy old man and shes a 21 year old with a low self esteem thats a different story, just depends but overall age is just a number except when theres a 4 year difference in the 13(or younger)-21 group, thats not cool

Not if the woman is reasonably mature. I'd say if you were a few years older, you'd be at competely different places in your lives, but between about 20 and 32, people seem pretty much to be establishing themselves in adulthood. But if she wants you to take her to a Hannah Montana concert, run for the hills!

Not at all. Age difference of 10 to 15 years are good.

No it's not wrong. She is not a child. You both are consenting adults. Men mature later than women, not that that may be the case, but you know what I mean. Don't let others dictate who you date. You should be proud of who your with regardless of age. As long as the two of you are okay with it the world will accept it sooner or later.

No! She's Grown And If You Two Have Enough In Common Go For It!! I Actually Like Older Guys! :-)

No. its just 9 yrs. it only gets really wrong wen its lyk hue hefner age differences or the girl is in high school still. (which i no sum1 who had a realationship with a guy 8 yrs. older than her while she was in hs)

Depends on who you ask. I'm sure some liberal 21 year old would love that idea but her conservative parents aren't going to be too forthcoming.

no, i don't think it is wrong. Go for it! :)

an age gap of about 9 years only matters when you are underage and not mature enough to be in a propper relationship