would you marry a girl who was not a virgin? (from a guys perspective more than a girls perspective)?

There are limits... Like when I was dating a girl and whooo 30 boyfriends.. Ho fo' sho'!!!

But I'm not an angel either.

My first gf was a virgin and so was I. It was a lot of work - hard work - and we didn't do anything for a year.

That being said... I'm truly happy to be with someone who's only slept with one girl. I think my limit would be 20.

And plus. You have to realize that people are good inside. Sex doesn't truly dictate a person's personality, but can give indications. If she's had a few partners - no big deal, if he / she has had a lot I would stay away.

Well im 19 an im a virgin. Me personally i want a girl with no expirience cause when u get married it takes 2. One person cant be an expert an the other is just a sack of sadness(pun) the marriage would end thats why they're so much divorce cause people arnt on one accord when it comes to sex. Now i made a promise 2 god to wait for my girl so in order to keep that promise i'll be willing to wait until basically my last day on earth(yeah that sounds crazy an impossible but hey a promise is a promise). But its hard to find a girl who wants a virgin(let alone find a virgin in atlanta), anywho i personally as a man think its a rare an beautiful site to see a female waiting (and their a virgin) for marriage an its kind of a turn on too.

To find one that is a virgin, now that would be the bigger question... You see the percentage of teens who lose their virginity is 77% before 18 years old. I can tell you from experience that it is really hard to find a women who is a virgin who is past 21years old. So to answer your question, yes I would marry one that is not a virgin. Being the fact that I am no longer one. It would kind of be a double standard to say that I would only marry a virgin when I myself am not one.

Yeah. Because chances are, if you think she's worth marrying in the first place, it probably shouldn't be a big deal if she has already had sex.

Give yourself time, I'm sure you'll figure this out for yourself. You're still pretty young.

If the man you are about to marry really loves you he wouldnt care. Most guys would make fun of the girl, but if the guy actually cares he would marry her

haha buddy... you're gonna have to do some huge searching in this world to find a girl that's going to be the age to marry and still be a virgin. Unless you want some super religious chick, it's going to be something quite rare. And no, I probably wouldn't because if they sucked in bed you'd be totally screwed. The physical part of a relationship is a pretty major thing.

i know im not a guy..but im gonna marry a guy that has been with other girls and hes obviously gonna marry me and i havent been so innocent either...we are now havin a baby but we decided before hand we were goin to be! i really dont think it matters from either perspective love is love and it just happens :)

Yes.

To say:

"I won't marry you because you aren't a virgin"

is kind of like saying:

"I don't care how much you love me, because of something you did before we even met, it's probably not enough."

What an arrogant idea. If some guy is so self-involved that he can't handle the idea of you having an intimate past, he might not be husband material anyway.

I'm not saying sex should be taken lightly, but perhaps some people shouldn't take it so seriously.

Well of course, still have to marry because marrying someone not basing on sex but of how deep is your love to that person.

A successful marriage is based on love and trust. If the person you love is not a virgin, and you choose not to marry her for that reason, then you do not really love her.