Get Mad!! Or get Revenge?

ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!!!!!!! That was PERFECT HONEY!!!!! A woman after my own heart!! You killed 2 birds with one STONE!!! You let your husband know how it feels to have his spouse look at naked pictures of their friends, AND you got rid of the PIG!!!!!!!!!!! NICE GOING!!!! I say TOO BAD for your husband!! Hopefully he learned his lesson! he had a lot of balls viewing those pictures in front of you for christ sakes!!!!!!! Your AWESOME!!! and you did NOTHING wrong. Congradulations!!! A woman after my own heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hey melissa>>> Don't let these clowns on here get you to think you did something wrong!!! YOU DIDN'T!!! your husband didn't even give you the respect enough to look at those pictures at another time outside your presence!!!!!! He was more concerned about what his friend would have thought of him more then what you would have thought!!!! So I say TOO BAD!!!! He was an idiot for what he didi. And he deserved everything that came his way!!!!

Have you tried speaking to your neighbours about the racket their dog makes when they are out - sounds strange, but they truly may not realise what's going on!! Revenge is not an answer, and only lowers you to their level you know. You may find, hopefully, they are mortified to hear that their dog is doing this. You could go in by saying you are hearing him, is he okay? Rather than pitching in with a 'noise complaint' as such. If you don't get anywhere by doing that, if you are in the UK, Environmental Control, at your local Council will, or should help with excessive noise like this. Phone them. They will probably want you to keep a log of the times you are being disturbed (although I have to say they will have more sympathy for unsocial hours disturbances). Good luck - neigbourhood dog barking can be a nightmare!

Be your husband's friend and do not talk about it anymore besides telling him this whole story is womanizing pig's fault. He has no respect for ones intimacy and he should be sorry to make unstable couples skip over their own unresolved matters. Try to understand that your (both) curiosity might make each of you upset to the other but the real thing is womanizing pig's bad manners and disrespect for your relation, he should have known this kind of thing could happen and you both should care enough for each other not to fall into his tease. The word is forgiveness, but stay away from this wo-pig.

You doing the same thing to him that made you mad is a little childish isn't it? I mean if you guys are going to play these kind of games, no telling where they will stop. If it wasn't right for him then it wasn't right for you. Your telling him how you felt about it should have been enough. For you to turn around and do the same thing is kind of hypocritical of you don't you think. Don't spend your married life seeing who can get even with who. When something bothers you or is wrong discuss it and leave it at that unless it happens again. And even then revenge isn't the answer.

Red

I think you handled it okay, I think your husband is a little on the wimpy side, to cry over you looking at his friend male parts. I think you should just tell him that you do not mind him looking at his friends wife as long as he does not mind if your looking at his naked friend. I'm sure he will never look at another naked picture of any woman again, just to keep you from drooling over his friends member. Good luck.

I never read "questions" that are this long.

I did however read yours.

Very interesting story...

You both need to grow up a bit.

I mean really, who cares who sees who naked in a picture, really.

It is just a picture. He did not f uck her and you did not f uck him.

And especially who cares how big anyones "member" is...really.

Are men that insecure with their own sexuality?

I might not be the biggest man in the room but I am usually the best.

I have over 6000 hot pics in my computer if you want to see some.

See, the thing is, his friend handed him that phone... and it's hard not to look when someone puts it right in front of you. It's like a train wreck. Maybe you don't want to look, and if you had a choice you wouldn't, but when it's right there in front of him... he can't help but look. But that was absolutely disrespectful for him to do that right in front of you! He should have handed the phone back to his friend ASAP, but his curiosity probably got the better of him when he was looking through the pictures. Anyway what you did is a bit different. You knew what you were going to see, and you decided to see it, and you did it out of spite, then turned around and told him about it. That's pretty immature and really hurtful, but what's done is done. You just looked at them and told him about it to hurt him to get back at him, so, congrats, it worked. AND on top of it you insulted his manhood by saying how big his friend's was. He was wrong for looking at them in front of you, you were wrong for getting the pics to look at from your friend, but what's done is done. Kiss and makeup already.

I think all of you need to GROW UP. What he did was wrong, but how you handled it was just as wrong. Two wrongs don't make a right. Did you feel good when you made your hubby cry?? If you really loved him wouldn't have looked for vengeance for something so trivial, plus you blew it out of proportion and went a bit too far.

What you did was wrong, but it was still ok...hey you got rid of the loser friend... Besides you said his friend was a total douche...in the end the chips fell right...that what your husband gets. It is on thing to look at a naked stranger but his best friends wife...your husband got what he deserved

what you did is funny, i probably would have done the same thing but he is a guy and they are gonna look, but it is fun to sometimes show them how it feels, the only other thing i would have done is called womanizing pigs wife to let her know her picture was getting passed around. she should get even with him for that