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What should I do about my ex?
My ex was the sweetest guy ever, but he was very very nerdy. My friends always made fun of me because of that. I am not one who cares about looks over character, but he still likes me.
But the thing is, he is like a sad puppy dog following his mother.
But he also said that he has had friends since preschool and none of them have meant more to him than me, and that I was the first girl he has ever grown to love.
I am so confused. What should I do?
He was my bf.
I did like him, but I had to break up with him because I just didn't feel the same way I did before. I loved him, but I wasn't in love with him.
So no, I did not break up with him because he was nerdy.
10 Answers
- Lynne WLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
I thought you said he was your "ex".
There was no mention of marriage or divorce in your story though.
Was he just a boyfriend?, if so he's not an "ex".
- 1 decade ago
Well in my opinion, it all depends on how you feel about him. If yu think yu like him enough to not care about his character and what yur so-called friends say feel about him.
This is like the situation in Avril Lavigne-Song-Sk8ter Boi. Well, I guess the boy's character is opposite. He isn't a rock-star but hey you never know! He might turn out to be an awesome guy!
Anyway, I think yu shud give him another chance only if yu like him enough to except his charcter. If yu go out with him again but realize in the middle that yu cant handle it, it wont be so convenient.
Lastly, talk to him about yu also having feelings for him but he needs to change a little not that yu have a problem with his nerdiness. Right?
Oki Doki. Hope this helps! All the best!
Source(s): Brain [: - Anonymous1 decade ago
Aaaawww that's the cutest thing ever!
About the friends part...you should never let anyone tell you who you can and cannot date besides your mother. Mothers are always right.
If he follows his mother it's because he really admires her.
A guy who is very close to his mother and or sister is a very good guy because it means they know to care for and respect girls the same way.
If you are more important than his PRESCHOOL friends, why are you confused? The guy is obviously head over heels for you. Would you rather go out with a guy that is all gangster and hates his family? I would think not...
- 1 decade ago
sounds 2 me like u want to b with him but u r a little concerned of wut your friends think or u wouldnt have posted it and if u can say he is like a sad puppy dog following his mother then u obviosly dont care about him enough 2 be with him your best bet is 2 tell him sorry but i just dont feel like u do cuz if u lead him on hell just get more attached
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Why did you guys break up in the first place?
And if you don't like him anymore calmly tell him that, and apologize, then go ahead and ask him to stop following you.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
do you mean hes clingy? if he hasnt been with a girl and feels like youre the stronger one in the relationship (cos you are better with guys than he is with girls) then its not surprising that he is clingy. if you like him then just tell him to not be so clingy, and if you love him then tell him.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You should've not broke up with him if you didn't care about looks. So, just do something to get him back.
- 1 decade ago
he has to experience this just be glad your the one to do this.
be a good friend to him but make it a point that he is not your BF anymore
- 1 decade ago
if you really love him, no matter what your friends or other people say, you won't care.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
if you like him, it shouldnt matter what anyone else thinks. and if he likes you, he shouldnt care what his parents think of you either.