Confronted wife about her possible affair, NOW WHAT?

I'm thinking she has feelings for the other guy, and has not broken it off. I would kick her out of the home until she either gets herself together and commits to working it out, or decides to divorce.

I'm sorry, but her mind sounds halfway made up already. Prepare for the worst.

If the wearing a wedding ring to you is important...(Bands don't stop folks from messing around) Then get them sized so she can wear them. Problem 1 solved...

Problem 2 you confronted her and she says of course NOT!

Well ask he why the need to hang at bars without you? If they is an answer which there will be watch her face the second after the question is asked....I mean the second after you finish that question....If she breaks eye contact she feels guilty about something...Now doesn't mean she is having a affair but she need not be in bars for some reason

My wife used to complain about me not wearing my ring to work even though any jewelry is a hazard in the construction industry. Also for years I stopped and had two beers with the fellas after work. She bitched that I was in a bar without it. Then I had her come to one bar one day and another the next. We both sat alone. The day I wore the ring no women even looked my way more than once. The next I wore it and got hit in by a married women. I don't know if it works the same for women. But it seems that is the way with me.

You confronted her. What did she say? Ask her if she would like you to get the rings re sized. Do something romantic for her. If she had an affair, are you forgiving her? Is she showing remorse? Before a loving relationship can be reestablished, she must be remorseful, and you must be willing to forgive her.

The first thing i would try to do is get her the right size wedding ring if she still refuses to wear it. I would ask her to go to marriage counseling, if she refuses that the next step is divorce. Its going to be hard but i would try the marriage counseling first and the wedding ring idea.

Sounds like she is having somewhat of a personal crisis. Do you help around the house, play with the kids? Remember, you were only 19 when you started out together, maybe she thinks she missed something during those years and is hoping to find it. Try counseling.***Mildred sent me***

You can't fix this marriage on your own, especially if she's cheating. She's not working on it so it's going to be 100% you. Are you willing to take her (very occasional) sloppy seconds? You deserve a relationship that is reciprocal and your children deserve to see how a NORMAL relationship is. Good luck.

She is acting defensive because she is probably guilty and is trying to find an excuse to leave you. I woulndt fall for the acting. Why would you want to be with someone who is cheating on you anyway?

Of course she's cheating. She has you to the point whee you can't lav her without giving up half. I bet you this guy whoever it is has more money than you!

edit: Don't do something romantic for her. Typical woman dumb@$$ answer!

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