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What do you do when the one you love belongs to someone else?
I like this guy a lot, and I guess it's his fault cause he's the one leading me on, but the point is i like him. I've tried getting over him but what is the point when he's with you every second of the day. His girlfriend doesn't treat him right and I'm just waiting until he loves me back.
It sounds stupid it does but, should I walk out of the love triangle?
10 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Move on. It's obvious that you care about him, but if he doesn't care about you enough to end the relationship with his current girlfriend that obviously isn't going very well, then it's best to move on to someone that will actually return the feelings you have for them.
You're better than pining over some jerk that has no problem flirting with other girls when he has a girlfriend.
- 1 decade ago
Maybe his Girlfriend doesn't "Treat him right" because he's a jerk.
The point is darling, no one can do anything to you that you don't allow them to do.
This guy would not have the opportunity to "Lead you on" if you were not willing to be lead.
I would not suggest waiting for him to "Love you back" I would suggest spending your time more productively in finding someone who is available, isn't giving you a bunch of crap about how his Girlfriend doesn't treat him right, doesn't understand him etc... yet still continues to stay in the relationship with the "Horrible Girlfriend"
Love triangles... typically are really only vicious circles.
- SelinaLv 51 decade ago
It may suck, but yes. I think you should. I know i was in a situation like that a few years back (where my guy best friend was with this girl that treated him like crap and i kept thinking he deserved so much better and hoping he would stop loving her and maybe be interested in me...), but, after a while, i realized that I didnt want to ruin out friendship by turning it more than that and then if we ended up breaking up, everything we had was gone so that helped me get over him.
Just try to think of reasons why you shouldnt be together. I know it may suck, but most of the time, guys dont realize their girlfriends treat them badly and will stick around because they are, sorry to say, but whipped. That was my friends case anyways.
Just walk out now. Staying in the triangle will only end up hurting you or him in the end. Just think of him as nothing more than a friend and if it helps, try to hang out with him less.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I adivise you to speak to him. Tell him how you feel, if you havnt alreadly, and see his reaction. Then just try to keep away from him for some time. He will then realise what a great person he is missing out on, and will direct all of his attention to you, well, hopefully.
Good luck.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
no love triangle on my side. what better He would want for me than to be loved with real love but He cannot make decisions for you. like He doesnt make my decisions, well He does (smile) because I let Him. Like this affair with you. Out of my hands. I like it that way. No responsibility. Pain is easier than responsibility.
- 1 decade ago
Have you try hard enough?
Why is he not asking you but get his friend to do it?
Let him and the gf sort it out and you may zoom in on the rebound but be careful!
- 1 decade ago
yes, because you will get your heart broken. seriously, walk away now!
do not hang around waiting to see if he will ever love you. it is not worth it ....
- Anonymous1 decade ago
wait or if your desperate you have 2 option cheat or make him jealous
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Move on.