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here is why i can't get over my ex boyfriend - any advice?
I can still visulize the first time we met, our first date, his smell.
We met from the Net. He came to my school to meet up with me. I now work at the university I attended back then and I can still feel the butterflies that I felth that day as I pulled into the parking lot...because I knew this was "the" day that we'd finally meet. It was Fall and the leaves were yellow and orange. I can still hear my car drive over them. I can see his car in a distance.
Now he's gone out of my life....2.5 years later....gone. And he is very very sick now. The lifestyle he once had is gone. I hope he is OK. I would love to be around for him, to support him, to hold his puke bucket, etc...I truly loved him. But I just don't think he loved me the same way even though he says he did. I feel like I wasn't pretty enough, and we were total opposites. Ahhh. How I miss him.
11 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
um...
that's nice?
don't keep trying to get over him, if he was your first love then chances are you probably never will. you'll just move on & hold on to those fond memories of him.
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- 1 decade ago
Writing this stuff out is a good way to expel these feelings. I write country songs when I go through a break up. I would stay away from him though. Trying to talk to him or be around him (even if he wants to be around you) will only make it harder to get over him. Talk to a close friend. They'll probably be willing to point out everything wrong about him and you can have a good laugh about it. And go out and try to meet some new guys. Don't go out with the intention of finding a boyfriend, you're not ready for that much commitment. Just let some people flirt with you. Flirt with some people. It will make you feel good and help you picture being with someone else, even if its not in the near distant future. Above all, just accept that getting over love takes time and commitment. You have to choose to move on. Don't choose to wallow.
- 1 decade ago
Um, it sounds like you have left your hope in a guy that you thought you might spend your entire life with. I know how that feels... well, not really, but that seems like what we all want to hear when we are in pain... that and that it is all going ot be alright. But the truth of the matter is that it will probably naw away at you for quite a while until you will finally get over this guy and find better. You may have thought he would be the one and it just isn't what God and destiny and all that has set out for you. So, make one of the hardest goals and decisions of your life and move on. But don't do it by yourself. Your gonna need help. I know that. You know that. Jesus loves you ;)
- 1 decade ago
If you want to be there for him, then I think you should try and be there for him. If you want to be WITH him, I think you should try and get with him. If it doesn't feel the same then that's because it's not and it probably never will again. And if that's the case, then when you go to work every morning and you get the feelings that you used to have, relish them. Remember the way you loved him but also remember that it's JUST a memory and do your best to move on. I hope I helped!!!
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- 1 decade ago
Try to let go. My mom is trying to also let go of someone else. Maybe if you talked to him you can remember how much of a pain he was.
- hey girl hey!Lv 41 decade ago
u have to move on. if u have doubts about how someone felt about u, then don't try and go back to them. he's moved on, so you should do the same. sorry he's sick.
Source(s): me. - 1 decade ago
Mia, my dear first do what will make u feel happy...if it was me i will go to see him!! i'm sure u had such beautiful time together.don't u think he deserves a nice visit makes him happy a bit :)
