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I feel so trapped...?
been living with my bf for 2 years (bort our house) and i really dont love him anymore and he often gets violent with me (never hit just pushes) what do i do ? i have no where else to go
i do work but only on minimun wage which is no where near enough to get own place and the market is bad at the mo so hard to sell the house! think ill just av to get on with it lol xx thanks for answers tho
11 Answers
- 1 decade ago
Frustrating and confusing place to be. Violence in any form is both controlling and can and usually does become more intense. If not able to deal with this now then plan for a quick exit. Have a place where you can leave your things like car keys, money and cards. Have some spare clothes phone numbers and any other things you may need. Even if it is as simple as having it in the same spot so you're not confused looking for it if you have to go. Think about who you may be able to stay with (short or long) term. You are more important than any possessions and it can always be settled later. If there is a domestic violence service or 24 hour crisis line maybe you could have a talk to them. It may feel over the top. I am worried for your safety and sanity. Good Luck.
Source(s): crisis counselor 16 years - Anonymous1 decade ago
you need to start taking control, get out of the relationship, call the police because even if just pushing you its still abuse. Why dont you live with your parents for a while and then sort some place out when more money is coming in.
- B ALv 41 decade ago
I'm guessing that you don't work and he does or else you would be able to go wherever you want. Get a source of income and stop trying to sound like a victim. Your stuck because you need him to take care of everything, which is your choice to let him.
If you do work and have a source of income, move out. I know it's easier said than done, but there's no way around it. People think that it's about "working on the relationship." Take care of yourself first, that's most important.
- 1 decade ago
well i can understand this situation....at first u loved him n was really happy but now its over....well i think u should leave him n move out of his life n house....in the begining it gonna be hard for u but i think weaever u live u get the support from this women crises ..stuff...n later u try to get a job n make new friends n than ur life gonna be a better...but if u made ur mind that u cannot do it than u will be everytime unhappy n one day u will hv mental problem...try u be strong n make a move...i am sure u are pretty n strong ...n will get a new bf n friends who will be ready to help u... n than u will be surprise wat ur brings.... all the best...
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- 1 decade ago
Call the police!! get restraining or personal protection order and guess who gets to stay in the house!!! It is a bad situation all around and will get worse! Work on getting out!!!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Call a Woman's help line in your area their are always options even though he dosent hit you he is still verbally abusing you.....I recommend to get out now before it escalates some men become more and more controlling...
- Steven KLv 41 decade ago
If you have no where to go, then you have to stay. But you may work on leaving his house later.
- DiggsLv 41 decade ago
Have him arrested. Do you have any friends you could stay with? You can go to a women's shelter for now. You really really have to leave.
- 1 decade ago
go to your moms houe ask to live with her or dads or nana or granda
kk anddump him next to ur dad and call cops if he gets violt
- Anonymous1 decade ago
call the police . his pushing you so thats still physical abuse.
tell someone who is close to you if you can.