I need some urgent relationship help! My girlfriend..my love..whats happening to her?? Has she gone nuts?HELP?

Ok - I think she had a little emotional outburst and said some things she didn't mean.

If you didn't know it already women can be totally irrational and when they get overwhelmed by stuff in their life they can have total meltdowns (often corresponding with the time of the month).

If I were you I'd wait for her to calm down and remind her that what she said hurt you or made you feel unappreciated. She will probably apologise.

When I get down I push people away even those closest to me. Honestly it sounds like she didn't mean it.

What I see as I've read your story is that you assume a lot about her. She said she felt lonely - why would she feel lonely when you're there 24/7? Could it be that you're not loving her in the way she needs but in the way you think she does?

Take a few days, think about how you've loved her. Call her and tell her that you want to take a few days to think. I had a gf that I did a lot for and spent time with but she felt the same way. In the end she needed more of a physical and emotional connection - I don't mean sex; I mean holding her and not saying anything.

I think she feels like she doesn't give near as much as you. And then she overanalyzing it and coming up with the funny idea that that means she doesn't care about you as much as you do her.

She's feeling it's too good to be true, she's not good enough to deserve it, and there must be something else going on. she might have been hurt by someone before.

Add this to the fact that ladies get emotional sometimes, and you have a recipe for an irrational situation. Take her advice and don't contact her for a few days.

Well first you need to find out if she is being faithful to you because some of those statements sounded like guilt. But she may be in a depression ok, and is thinking about her life and the people in her life. And depending on how suicidal you think she is, is rather you find a counselor for her to talk to. Sounds like she needs someone to talk to. You sound like a very caring person and I know that caring people tend to be clingy so I would give her some space and just talk to her. Suggest taking a break to give her room to think not breaking up and make that understood to her. Good Luck.

ok, every once in a while stress can get to some one, (especially women) and its just very overwhelming...what you need to do is let her have time to her self to think things over and calm down...i mean, call her like once a day and just say, "just wanted to say hi, and i love you....if you still need your time i understand...call me later if you get the chance" i sometimes get like that, and people trying to ;help'' just make it worse, i have done something similar to my husband,so, just let her cool off and she will come around on her own ok....the best way i can explain what i think she's going through is like this...its like everything you have had to deal with over the past couple of months (even if you resolved the problem) comes boiling up and you over Analise EVERY situation and you over think all the wrong ones, and when people try and help, everything just seems to come out rude and it pisses you off more....so that might be it...the best things at these times are to just blow it off, except that she's a little angry right now and give her some space....my hubby learned the hard way...lol...i hope i was some help, good luck!!!

I think that she feels maybe that you do care "way too much for her" and in her mind, it feels "suffocating" at times. Maybe you should not call her for a day or two and really, go on with your life. Sometimes, we care too much for others and the other person might feel "pushed over".

Of course you have the best of intentions, but try to give her the "silent treatment" for two or three days and call her then. Give it a try at least !

It sounds to me like she is feeling bad because she depends on you so much and you do so much for her and she doesn't do much in return. Also, maybe she is just feeling a bit smothered by all your caring and sensitivity? I know that sounds insane, but I mentioned to my fiance a few weeks ago that I felt ignored and he has been going out of his way for the past two weeks now to show me "attention". Basically, he's been driving me insane for the past two weeks. Sometimes we just need space. We know that y'all love us and take care of us and we appreciate it, but it gets a bit much at times. On top of it she sounds like she is very stressed. Give it a few days and I bet she will call you and probably apologize for the whole incident.

Give her time to search herself. I think she has past which is hunting her. Find out from her background.

Im going to get a psychic connection with my cat.

just leave her be then like 2 days