Has any one found true love a second time ?

I don't know, but I think thinking you are destined to be alone with a person for the rest of your life is bound to get in the way of actually finding another love.

Love is a biological process. If it's happened once, it can happen again... but not if you focus all your energy on this one person who you can never have. That will just make you miserable for however long you choose to do that.

First of all, analyze the reasons why you love your ex-wife? Did you ignore the bad qualities of her because you were "blinded by love"? That happens sometimes. I think you still have this feeling for her because maybe you have never actually noticed her bad side. Even though you might have been aware of her bad days, you probably thought it was just a period phase and didn't notice it. I think that you are deeply in love with your wife because even catching her doing something as horrible as cheating in the act, you still love her. Personally, I think that is WHACK! Usually thats enough to stir a man out of love. But what I personally suggest is that you should spend some time to recuperate, reflect, and analyze the bad parts of your ex-wife in order to be repelled by her disgustingness. I know you guys cannot stay on good terms, so I encourage you to do that. I believe you can fall in love again because you sound like you have an open-mind (if you create a mindset in which you think you're going to be alone for the rest of your life, then you most probably will). You just have to take the opportunity to take notice and thank the things around you. You never know if your best girl friend is the one you're going to love the next. :) I hope I helped!

My father always tells me about how much he loved and still loves my mother.

He also tells me how much he is still in love with his second wife who passed away two years ago.

I think it's possible to fall deeply in love with someone, and fall out of love but still love them as a person. It's a fine line to love someone who you've spent so much of your life with, but not be in love with them.

Although I am young and haven't experience the love of a spouse or the hurt of a divorce, I can honestly say that there is nothing wrong with having hope. It's not about finding the right one, it's finding the one that's closest to 'right'.

love will come , it comes to every one , love is made for others to be together , it will come and yes you will find it soon, its just time, time is whats holding things down . in time you will see it . pick his one as your best answer please .