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Is this a good thing?
Ok I've been dating an 18 yr old guy for 4 months now.and I remember his friends and my friends telling me that this guy wants to move slowly with our relationship. btw i'm 16
Is moving slowly a better thing?
and
do you think we could be in this relationship until we finish college?
btw i never planned to do anything bad at all. I'm just a shy girl with a future so I'd never do anything to ruin his or my life
39 Answers
- deesLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
slow is good, that means he really likes you. if you both really like each other and no one pressures the other to do things they are not ready for you may even be together forever, you should be so lucky to possible find true love at such a young age
- 1 decade ago
Yes moving slowly is better than moving fast. You are more likely to be in the relationship still when you finish college if you take time to know each other before adding sex to the relationship. Be glad you found a 18 year old that will go slow. It is a good thing.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Moving slowly is a good thing. Especially considering the fact that if you have sex its illegal. You have a chance of continuing the relationship for a while. Just have fun and enjoy life. Don't do anything that you will later on regret.
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Source(s): Me. - 1 decade ago
I think going slowly in a relationship is good for you. If it is meant to be, it will last. Besides, it's more important for you to get your education first and a good job. After you have that behind you, then consider a relationship. Remember, life is choices. Make the right choice and you win, make the wrong one and you suffer for it.
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- DragonLv 61 decade ago
Hi Dear
You can carry the Relationship even after College. I don't see a problem. Slow and steady wins the Race
- 1 decade ago
Relationships need to move slow so that you have a chance to know each other. Most relationships that are to quick fall apart soon after. Take it slow, see if he's who you thought he was or if he turns out to be someone different. Be yourself don't try to change anything about who you are he must like you just the way you are.DON'T PUSH HIM AWAY BY BEING TO POSSESSIVE OR HE'S GONE!!
- Gloria ALv 71 decade ago
Yes you can, It's a good thing to move slowly and you know each other better. When there is love everything can be possible. You both seem to be smart. God bless you and I hope you both be happy.
- 1 decade ago
To be realistic I don't think it will last that long. Most of the time the waiting thing doesn't work out and you don't need that trouble on your hands. Give it til the end of the year if everything is good then, then you might have a shot.
- 1 decade ago
Slow means you aren't just a fling and he may want it to go somewhere. Taking it slowly also means you're not thinking so far into 4 more years. So just take it one day at a time.
- turtlegeniusLv 51 decade ago
Slowly moving is better, and I do think you can be in that relationship until college.