lose of sex drive tips ??

ahh, i'm having the same problem and I'm 21. it's weird, i know... i'm starting to think it's strictly hormonal, some sort of abnormality. i'm often depressed too and blah blah blah, no real reason why. i have a perfect boyfriend who's the most attractive person in the world to me... it's not him, so. i don't know, i'm thinking of going to a doctor for blood tests.

it's a common problem for women though. it could be anything... fatigue, stress, poor body image, etc. etc. if you want it to come back, it will somehow. if it really starts to bother you, you should ask your doctor about it.

The first thing you need to do is figure out why your sex drive is low and try to help get it back. I was in your situation and it's not fun without being horny and feeling in the mood when needed. I also felt like my orgasms (if I would even get one) were really weak. Probably because of my sex drive.

However, I tried exercising and dieting but nothing seemed to be working. I thought I was screwed. I then found something just as amazing as the vibrator.

My friend at work told me about this stuff she took to raise her sex drive. It was a natural herbal supplement and was I lucky to of found it. Theres no side effects and the sex drive is just tremendous along with orgasms that are blasting. The stuff is called Hersolution pills. At the time I saved money on them at herenhancement.com

What I did was tried out for 3 months and that was really it. I found taking them every other day or so was the best to stretch it out. After the months were up, I was back to normal with a beating sex drive and my orgasm strength in increased so much.

Well good luck and I hope this helps.

Clearly your current sexual libido's are not a match...Loving couples work through this, allow one another a little space and time. Face it though, "firework" sex doesn't usually last forever, most mature people get that. Don't make it such a HUGE deal in your marriage...The man loves you and your child...is good to you. So you need to let it go for a while dear and focus on your relationship in other ways (i.e., doing things together, walks, movies, special events and meals, etc.) But the more you push? -The more he will back off. The face of marriage changes with greater fiscal responsibilities, children, housework, time, etc. Sex should not be the center of your world by any stretch of the imagination (face it: it's about l hr. out of 24 a day at best!) My advice is grow up a little here and hone your friendship with your beloved and stop thinking about yourself for a little while and yourself and be a wife and mother.. Cut the guy some slack for God's sake! Sincerely, Grace

Sex drive is like a lost dog.. it'll always find its way back. I was in a relationship where sex was frequent. By the time that ended i felt like a Neutered cat for quite a while till i met my current chick. Once you meet the right guy or someone your attracted to it'll come back.

Hope me helps

Ps It could also be the time of year, alot of people get down this time and inturn your sex drive suffers

It can be alot of things, if you're really stressed about school or work, or not getting enough sleep, too much going on your life. Anything that makes you stressed or tired or irritable is going to have a negative effect on your sex drive.

Try to get more sleep, or sort out whats causing stress and try to eliminate it if possible.

Also, there is a great line of teas called, Republic of Teas and they have a tea called Get Passionate that has passionflower, hibiscus and roobios in it, all which are great herbal ways to perk your sex drive up.

could be hormones.

could be the birth control pill or other hormonal birth control, if you're on it.

could be depression.

could be low self-esteem.

could be a lack of interest in your partner.

think these things over and try to come up with a solution. you may need to see a doctor to rule out any physical problems or hormonal imbalances.

eat well, get plenty of rest and communicate with your partner.

good luck

Lose of sex drive huh?? Mr. Buzz not doin it no more?? If you have a boyfriend you can make sure you have sex every night.. that way you make yourself do it, and since you have to you will eventually make the most out of it. Try different fetishes. Most important, get a boyfriend if you don't, having one-night-stand sex is rarely ever satisfying for the girl.

Try not to think about it.... the more you think about it the more it becomes a problem. Its all in the mind!!!

Justtake things slow and then when u cant have it...... u will want it!

maybe you can have sex again, that could help

LOL, just do things with guys which turn you on