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What do you do when you have clues that the one you love loves someone else?
so i like this girl and she's just amazing and we have so much in common. she "used" to like her friend for a long time and all of a sudden i come in the picture and she doesn't like her anymore. but then from a source i see that she still misses the other girl. it hurts me so bad to think that when im with her and we're kissing or something that she's thinking of the other girl. and it hurts. i dont wanna let her go cuz she means a lot 2 me. she says she loves me but does she mean it? i understand its hard for her to let go of someone but i dont want my feelings hurt so bad to the point where im gonna have a breakdown. i haven't met anybody like her and she's my first. we're not official but we act like we're in a relationship. she jus doesn't use the PDA (public display of affection) like i'd want to. ):
5 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
you need to let go now whilst it's still early days. It will hurt more in the long run. Either losing you will make her realise how much you mean to her or not. If that's the case then you would have only ever got hurt in the end anyway. I hope it works out for you but you deserve to be with someone that wants you and only you.
- 1 decade ago
There's no reason to feel bad, she chose you and if she REALLY wanted to be with her other friend than she would be. That's her problem, not yours. You have to remember that this happens in relationships with someone being left out or forgotten about but if you simply came into the picture and didnt try to get rid of her then dont worry about it.
Simply put, time heals.
- 1 decade ago
I am confused... if she says she loves you then why are you not in a realationship... and why does she not want pda with you? Is it because she does not want anyone to know she is gay or she does not want anyone to know she is with you? I would cut my losses and move on if you have doubts about her intentions. It may suck but it would be a lot worse if you invest more time and emotions into this and are proven right.
- 1 decade ago
That can be a horrible feeling!
I think you should really talk to her and tell her how you feel, also that it would hurt you more for her to stay with you and lie than to leave you for that girl again. Hope that helps!
Best of luck :)
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- 1 decade ago
You should ask her about her feeling about the other person.
Only you can assess if the relationship is worth keeping.
