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Gay guy keeps bothering me in school?

Theres this gay guy in my school. He's in my class this year, and he tells all the girls that he hangs out with that he likes me. He also hits me then I just give him a look then walk away. I dont want to get expelled because my principal is strict. I already told all the girls to tell him that I said to leave me alone and he still keeps bothering me! What should I do? I dont want to go to my guidance counselor because it would feel odd to talk to him about something like that.

Update:

WTF-- THATS NOT HELPING ME IM STRAIGHT I LIKE WOMEN! I ENJOY PUSSY!! LOL, SORRY FOR SAYING THAT BUT STOP SAYING THINGS LIKE "MAKE OUT WITH HIM" OR WHATEVER WTF...

Update 2:

I already told him that im straight, it doesnt seem to be working.

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    The fact that he's gay or a guy or your a guy is irrelevant. No one should have to tolerate sexual advances from anyone that makes you uncomfortable. I would talk to him. Tell him that you aren't interested and he is really making you uncomfortable. Sometimes people think if they are persistent than they can sway you to feel the same way towards them. Lay down the law. You don't have to be cruel or humiliating or even mention his orientation, just flat out say "You need to back up off me, you starting to piss me off." If all else fails and you can't talk to your principle file a sexual harassment report with the police. I know it sounds extreme but school and life is hard enough without being made to tolerate inappropriate behavior.

  • 1 decade ago

    Why telling the girls to tell him anything? Tell him yourself. Guidance counsellors can't do a damn thing about it either. Tell him to leave you alone, give him an ultimatum, and if he doesn't stop, go to your principal's office and fill a complaint against him for harassment.

  • 5 years ago

    Take it as a compliment. If you're comfortable with your own sexuality it shouldn't bother you. If he makes a pass at you just thank him for the compliment and tell him you're not interested and go on about your business.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just be honest with him - isn't that all anyone wants?

    Catch him alone and say "I am sorry if I have given you the wrong impression but I am completely straight and your advances are unwelcomed."

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  • 1 decade ago

    if ur str8, even if u were gay, ur not into him and he needs to respect that.

    if he doesnt lay off, thats a form of harassment that needs to stop.

    dont feel embarrassed about telling your guidance counselor--hes the one who should feel embarrassed, not you. and, he needs to be set straight (no pun intended) about his behavior.

  • 1 decade ago

    Have you heard of the Larry King? If not read up on it. He is sexually harassing you. Try to keep your cool and tell someone immediately.

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell him yourself. Same thing happened to me in highschool and he pestered me till graduation... I'm gay and all but I was still closeted and he was weird...

    Source(s): If negotiations don't work...... ugh ignore him... (forgot this isn't war o.o)
  • 1 decade ago

    stop showering. smell bad.

    or, tell him you're straight and that his advances are something you find intrusive.

    or, you could try making out with him. you might like it.

    it's best to be open-minded about these types of things.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell him yourself. His friends might not want to hurt his feelings by telling him that.

  • 1 decade ago

    talk to your guidance counselor it the only way

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