why do some woman try to ....?

I guess that they are insecure, they really don't want to be hurt they want to be the ones who say ha I beat you to it or I was cheating on you way before that so they don't really get hurt. Sometimes the partner may play a role in taking them for granted. (given that doesn't excuse what they are doing) Really I think that they area becoming too controlling of someone else's life because they don't want their boyfriend to do the same thing because they know that it is wrong and they know that. They want to hurt someone else without being hurt but that never really works.

I used to be this way and let me tell you why!!

I knew what I was doing/thinking behind my boyfriends back, So I automatically assumed he was doing the same thing. Because I was so insecure I wanted to be the one to hurt first. I worried so much about what others thought that I wanted to make sure the image out there was that if anyone in the relationship was getting hurt, it sure wasn't me!! very immature..

As far as the friends go, its a possesive/ control issue, and she doesn't want to give you the freedom of hanging out with your friends.. because of the fear you will do something stupid or hurtful, and in turn, embarass her.

hope it helps..

maybe they are faithful but the guy just gets really boring and doesnt even try in the relationship so she goes to find a friend that happens to be a guy and he shows her how a exciting and fun a relationship could be like then maybe things go a little to far.

what makes a person cheat on any other person? It's not because they did something wrong it may be because they wanted to see what else was out there or they felt the relationship falling apart.

Maybe a good offense is the best defense? Meaning keep attacking you so you won't look at what she's doing. But men do that too, so don't put it all on us!

Because she is basically a psychopath and she likes to have control over her boyfriend.

well im like that... ha ha ha.im 2 faced.i do all d things which i dont like my bf to do.but im nt tht bad as to go nd cheat n stuff

She's insecure and probably wanted to hurt him before he hurt her. OR she fell out of love and instead of telling him she tried to have her cake and eat it too. that's what it all boils down to.

Yeah their just horrible women

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she is a confused woman!