If a man has feminine actions, is that a sign that he is gay?

A woman's butt is a turn on for straight men -- it can be a store house of fat needed to feed the fetus. Check websites concerning our instinctual turn-ons. The English TV had a great series about the 'normal' turn-ons men and women are not aware of.

What are feminine actions? Limp wrists; flipping his hair, carrying his books under his breasts rather at his side??? There are mannerisms which are associated with women but have nothing to do with sexual identity -- they just are IN OUR COUNTRY. In other places no one would notice.

If you are having good sex, can approach your husband to initiate sex and he responds to you - that is all good. If you are sure of his love, that is good.

If he ignores you, maybe you two need to talk and work things out. Maybe he loves another woman. If he then says he would rather have sex with a man, then you know. Are you afraid to have this discussion with him? If so, you two are in real trouble.

Nope. Being effeminate does not equal being gay necessarily.

can you elaborate on his "feminine actions"?

lol...butt

no

No.