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Sprung much....why cant i forget her?
um, well there is this girl, and well im trying to getover her and just leave it all behind. No we never dated, but she goes to my school. My friends said just to for get it, but they were never in my position. Im bi obviously, and this girl, idk. I have never EVER felt this strong for someone before....i'd do anything for her, but why cant i just get over her?
9 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
The easiest way to get over her will be to find out if she reciprocates your feelings or not.
Because if she does feel something for you then granted, it will make it a lot harder to move on, but if she feels nothing then why waste your time yearning for somebody that can never give back what you need.
It sucks and is so damn hard when you feel so strongly for someone and can't get over them. Yeah, clearly your friends have never been in that situation or else they would be much more supportive.
Try get some closure, contact the girl if you can and see where her feelings are at. If this is not an option then only time will help you to get over her.
But never give so much of your heart and soul to someone, I love my boyfriend to death but I could not pledge that I would do anything for him because believe me, it's the one's we love the most than can hurt us the most.
I hope you're able to overcome all this and there is light at the end of your tunnel.
- 1 decade ago
Maybe you're in love with her?
I don't know any way to get over her, though
:/
I'm kind of in the same situation with my friend.
She graduated last year and I'm STILL not over her, no where close
I guess you just need to try and accept the fact that y'all aren't getting together?
I wish I knew what to say to help you
- 1 decade ago
don't listen to anyone else besides blaque or whatever that girls name is.
i been in the same situation, it was last year. i was a freshman in hs, she was a junior =). i was in love with her. she liked me too, but we didnt go out or anything "well that's what she said" i say we went out, but that's not the point really. its "why cant i get over her?" it's because she's constantly on your mind. that's like trying to get over the fact that you wear clothes everyday. it's not going to be easy to forget someone. it takes time.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I feel for you:/ thats exactly how i felt.. do NOT write her a love letter! LOL just get to know her more and become closer then when you two are really close tell her. Answer mine?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
awh im in the same situation.
no joke.
except she doesn't go t my school =/
but hm.
talk to her.
the more time you spend with them
the more your hurt goes away.
- 1 decade ago
I know the feeling >_<
it sucks
I know this doesn't help but I just wanted you to know that you are not alone sister...bahhhhhhh.
- Alex MLv 41 decade ago
Ask her plainly if she is lesbo or bi. then ask "top or bottom"
then ask if she owns a strap on. shoooo that **** is expensive.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
ok then