We have been going out for 7 1/2 months....

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And i really would like to tell him i love him....
i don't feel it is too soon, and when i try to describe how i feel about him, i think "I L...L...." and a simple, like, doesn't cut it anymore, love, just seems so much more appropriate to describe everything that i feel for him, and when i am with him i would like to tell him soo much, but i worry about if he will be able to respond comfortably. Although he fell much harder for me then i did for him at first, it hasnt yet flip flopped but our feelings are much more evenly distributed now, but our relationship has moved at a very slow progression pace which is very okay with me, and i understand it is because people have hurt him so many times, and because he would never ever want to loose me. We are only 14, (15 in a few days haha) and we are both in our first real relationship, but i can honestly say that i know so much about him, including his many flaws, but i do not love him any less, and i think i could easily live with him and only him for the rest of my life. I do know that people say every teenager feels like this, and i dont deny it, but i am saying truthfully what i feel and think at the moment, and i hope it is the truth and not only childish lust.
so do you think he would mind if i said "I love you" first, or should i wait for him?

NEdawgs · Accepted Answer

guys will say i love you bak if u say it even it it has been 1 month only

♥Kerri♥ · Answer

I think that after 7 1/2 months if you feel this way still and this strong then yes, you do really love him. I would tell him because 7 1/2 months is a long time before saying it. I told my boyfriend I loved him after 3 or 4 motnhs =) It's a great feeling isn't it? =) Don't hide it any longer!

mermaid85 · Answer

There are so many fish in the sea. Especially when you are 14 years old, don't be stuck to one person for the rest of your life.

If you think you love him then tell him. What's the worst that could happen?

kickbuttninjabunni · Answer

hmm well me and my boyfriend told each other we loved each other after 10 days of going out and now we're 2 & 1/2 years and going strong (plus of minues a few little break ups over differences, lol). but yeah if you feel it then go for it.

brown_eyed_chica61992 · Answer

i agree wit dee guy dwn der
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but being in love and all dat
ders diff types of loves and u can be "in" love wit him or just love him for who he is for how he treats u.
u are pretty young like me (16 turnin 17: 3months) && i have had 2  boifrndz dat i thot i WASSS in love wit since den. but as u git older i understood wat everyone told me..just young love and all dat stuff cuz u mature and u look bak & ur like waaattt!? hahaha but den again der are people dat fall for each other at a young age & stay together forever..derz a couple dat has stayed together since deyr 7th grade yr & now deyr seniors diz yr. & my uncle and aunt  have been together since frosh yr & deyr in deyr 30s now. anything can happen

so if u feel like u love him den tell him dnt have to be him tellin u first.
he mite just feel dee same as u are... prolly just waitin till u say it.

Natalie · Answer

u no watt its absolutely ok for u to say i love u first!!
and im guessin he will say it back and if he doesnt maybe hes just not readyy
but its bene almost 8 months u noo im guessin its love
and thats cute i wish i had sumone wen i was 14 going on 15 :)

jack J · Answer

I think in your age group it's too soon to start talking about love.

loves christmas lights · Answer

Always wait, your I love you can send him running, scared of you or his emotions or his not being able to handle it. Your smiles say it already or hed not be around ok.

i &lt;3 nyc · Answer

i dont think he would mind...i mean if you been w. him for 7 and 1/2 months, he probably feels the same

shiekybabee03 · Answer

he might be waiting for you to say it, the only way to find out is to tell him and either way its always better to let em know your feeling up front.. it might make your relationship much better.

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