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ok i with a guy who was in another relationship and he is so attach to his ex girlfriend child because hes been there scince the girl was born, mind you that this is not his child, when he is with me hes always sayin that hes 22 with no kids and asks me how i feel and the next thing you know hes tellin his friends that it is his child, now he goes over a picks her up with out letting me know and brings her back to my house so that i can watch her? tell do you think im wrong to tell him he should not have his ex girlfriend in his phone that he needs to leave her alone because its not his child and the girl is only 2.

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plus she knows her real father

Nikki_x · Accepted Answer

You can't expect him just to abandon the child, just because you're uncomfortable with the situation.
He's been there since the kid was born, he'll be attatched to her.
It's not fair on the little girl either - someone being removed from her life for no reason.

liz · Answer

if the kid doesn't have a father then you are wrong. You should let him be there for her because if she doesn't have a father and he is willing to step up to the plate then doesn't that just show you that he is a good man as well as a good human being? I mean if you guys broke up and you had a girl even if it wasn't his kid and your kid didn't have a father wouldn't you want somone to step up to the plate and be there for you kid rather than just leaving her stranded? You get what i'm saying?

William R · Answer

your very wrong if he has been with the child the whole time it probably thinks he is her dad and its better for the child and he probably says its his to shelter it because he feels it is his responsibility to take care of it.

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