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Seeing someone too often by coincidence?
I used to know someone during my studying days who was always annoying and bugging me for no reason, I finished years ago and was grateful we can't meet anymore, but somehow didn't forget.
Lately, everywhere I go I just meet that same person again! I don't know how or why that strange coincidence keeps happening, I just don't get it, but it happens!
and I'm sure it's not arranged or stalking because... for example, you go to a job interview, and guess what? that same person is the interviewer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this could never be arranged, could it?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Amazingly enough, that person became nice and is hinting to liking me! I try to walk away but we just meet the next month somewhere else! I kind of feel like fate is giving me that hint that I don't wanna get! I don't hate the person, but the thought is like a nightmare coming true... I guess!
Any suggestion or explanation? Thanks.
@lebanese girl
Thanks sister, I appreciate your care, but be sure I don't (and won't isA) do anything wrong or HARAM... I'm just confused and scared...
How come we are meant for each other while I don't feel this person is the right match for me? I'm scared
If we are not meant to be, why do we meet so often and in situations where I have to listen to the hints? I'm confused
Please pray for me, and thanks again :)
4 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade ago
salam sister.
well it was really good to read this... its so spontaneous...sobhana LLAH...
and thats really beautifull, i think u started love each others..thats why i say to u that ALLAH Knows whats in the future...but my advice is that no matter what remember that halal is the only way to be good muslima...so i dont know what will happenned but u should always try to be a good muslima and let things be like ALLAH (swt) want it to be...but the most important thing is being a good muslima ..he is a non mahram and if there will be something good between u two so let it be a good marriage,maybe ur surprised that im talking about marriage but again ALLAH(swt) knows best but try to always remimber who u are? u are a good muslima who live in halal and in the way that ALLAH(swt) want us to live by....thats islam way..a happiness way full of respect and peace for a ladie/guy .....so be careful from shaytan's ways to push u to sins and haram things...
i ask ALLAH to give u good ppl and good things always arround u...amin amin amin and i ask ALLAH (SWT) to prOTECT U FROM DOING HARAM...amin amin amin.
so keep it simple keep it modest and keep being a good muslima..i honestly am giving u my own personnal advice....not from any sheikh and not from websites so maybe i am wrong but believe me the safest way is halal and remembering that he is a non mahram to u...so be careful.
HALAL is the safe way no matter what.
salam sister. and good to know u.
PS: btw why didnt u post this question in ramadan section, there muslims will advice good advice and better than my advice.. plz try it.muslims are better to answer u, bcz they know whats halal and whats haram...
assalamo 3alaykom wa rahmato LLAH wa barakatoh sis.
Source(s): ALLAH AKBAR - SteveLv 41 decade ago
He could have your cellphone bugged,It's very easy to do, He could have a voice activated digital recorder in or under your desk, Drivers seat, Trick him with a fake text message and see if he shows up there. It might be coincident, But it smells fishy to me.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think its fate too.
you guys must be destined to be friends, or need each other in some way later in life.
