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he wont stop??? please help me make him stop!!?

so back to the beginning...we started talking and then we decided to hang out... and he kissed me. AGAIN and AGAIN and AGAIN...and then we hing out like 2 days later and that is like all he wants to do is to kiss me...he said it too. he said he likes to bc my lips are soft. and don't think i don't like it. but i'm just a little sick of him just wanting to all the time... and it's like not on the lips it's the cheek and the forehead and the top of the head and the and and the neck...and the arms...

ok and also... i like to take things slow...and when i kissed him he try ed slipping me the tongue. and i said i didn't want to. then he was like ok...and then later he kissed me(again) and tried it again. and i made up an excuse and was like for real i can't(we were at my house and my mom was home) and he was like oh is that it or do you just not want to...and i was like uhh yea that is what i said the first time. and he was like oh ok sorry...THEN when he kissed me goodnight he tried it again! how do i tell him to stop...

edit: also that he said that he just "can't resist" don't get me wrong i'm flattered but MAKE IT STOP!!!!

THANKS

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    you sound like you want something but not everything, which is totally cool in the end he must respect you, just say no and ask him to leave if he carries on you should not do anything you don't want to, if he becomes moody or agressive then call you mom in and both of you ask him to leave. hopefully you will stop him from going any further say what you want dont be coy so he understands what you expect.

  • 1 decade ago

    It sounds like you guys dont even have a relationship and it's just about kissing. Tell him that you are a person and when you're together you want to do more than just kiss him! It's your body, set down the rules! Tell him he can only kiss you when you want to!

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

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  • ~Me~
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You have to make it stop! Just come right out and tell him that you don't want to kiss anymore!

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  • 1 decade ago

    just tell him to slow down

    tell him the kisses will be better if there not so often,make him learn to love your kiss,dont let him kiss you whenever he wants,your a girl you have control of when he kisses and when he cant kiss you

    TAKE CONTROL!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell him to get the fcuk off of you.

    That's creepy and obsessive sounding.

  • 1 decade ago

    ok, so just tell him upright I DONT FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH YOU KISSING ME ALL THE TIME!! PLEASE STOP! then mabey, if you want to threaten him or something like you'll break up with him or something like that. but anyways i hope it goes good!!!!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    weirdo "lso that he said that he just "can't resist" don't get me wrong i'm flattered but MAKE IT STOP!!!!"

    tell him to **** off before he rapes you

  • 1 decade ago

    tell him to fuckkkkkkkkkkk off

  • 1 decade ago

    your sound like a skank.. or a slut, or a whore, one of the 3 or all of the 3/

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