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Why do guys turn down girls? (guys only)?

i was just wondering why guys turn down girls?

is it because they are ugly?

or they are a geek?

im 14 and i got turned down and i have brown hair, skinny,and i think i have a pretty good personality the only thing is that i am short!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Well I guess its different for everyone but for me it always was just a matter of attraction, it may not be that your not attractive just that the guy may not be attracted to your type of face or hair colour or height. I read a new study that related attraction to face structure so you girls don't get down on your self just understand that its our mind that tells us who is attractive almost like we have no say in it. Also who is to say your actually going for the guy who's personality best fits you, you may be going on his looks.

  • 1 decade ago

    Not the end of the world. You sound pretty good to me.

    It is all in the package and presentation. Perhaps you are not presenting yourself properly. Just look at some mags and change your hairstyle or something.

    You have a long way to go. Patience. Guys will go for anything. Just one or two boys turning you down does not make it a life time experience.

  • 1 decade ago

    Do guys consider you a shrew? Those were the only girls I've ever turned down; the LAST thing a guy wants to be hooked up with is an argumentative, self-centered shrew. Life is miserable with them.

  • 1 decade ago

    You're only 14. The little boys at your age usually just want a girlfriend to brag that they have one. :/ He's just not into you, or he's MORE into someone else. Ask another boy?

    Me personally? I turn girls down because I'm gay. :)

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  • 1 decade ago

    probably you're not his type,but doesn't mean that he's too good for you or you can't get anyone else. You just got to find out if he likes you.

    by the way, I turn girls down because I don't like girls that ask guys out. That's what I think..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I turn down girls because I only date other guys. You've got the wrong section.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe their gay, maybe your not their type, maybe your way too young, who knows, it could be a million things.... point is, there is someone out there for you.... just maybe not now, your awfully young to be obsessing about this already..... but every guy who turns you down is just bringing you one step closer to the right one for you

  • 1 decade ago

    because they're gay...Straight girls find gay guys that are cute, and the straight ones uglier, sooo...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It's because you have a box. You're asking gay men here......

  • we like other people

    we might be gay

    we are kind of picky (at times. well, i am at least)

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