i have a hudge crush on this boy HUDGE....but i dont think my boyfriend would be happy about that...?

Sounds like you're not that happy in your relationship. I think it's time to end it.

I have been exactly where you are except I wasn't living with my bf. I was engaged to be married and one day met this gorgeous man at work. He was wonderful inside and out and paid a lot of attention to me. He wasn't a player, just a nice, decent man who did not know I was engaged. We started a friendship that quickly turned into something more. We knew a lot of the same people, enjoyed the same music, came from similar backgrounds, even went to the same high school. We laughed about the same things and before I knew it, I was head over heels. I worked with him for 3 months, then he left for college. I tried to forget him and "be with" my bf again. It didn't work. I realized I was much too young to be engaged to anyone. I felt smothered and restless. Long story short, my relationship ended. Honey, you should not be living with your bf. Do you have definite plans to marry your bf? Do you have any kind of commitment? If not, please heed my advice and make a break. It may be that this new guy is NOT going to work out, but you have strong feelings for someone else which proves you aren't quite ready to settle down. You need your freedom to explore and make choices. I was too cowardly to explain all of this to my fiance and just made things worse by fighting with him and trying to be disagreeable. The guilt and uncertaintly were tearing me up. At age 18, you should not be in this situation.

Whats a hudge crush? If it is a huge crush, talk to that guy and see how he feels.

follow your feelings. i guess you might not because sticking with your boifren is the easier choice. but do you want to regret? then again you said you just met this guy at work, does he even know you like him or more importantly, does he like you? ask yourself do you like the boifren you have right now? deep breathe then think about the questions, hopefully that helped! all the best

You are dreaming of something that you haven't got and you want to lose what you have.Great,make up you mind,do you want to flirt or do you want a good man for life.It is you to make a decision not someone who doesn't know you/

It sounds like you aren't 100% sure or content in your current relationship. If you really see a future with this new guy, you should pursue him, but make sure you choose carefully.

id say stay with your boyfriend, i mean, first off, its a crush, it'll go away, secondly, you live with your boyfriend, and i dont think he'd let you stay livin at his place if you told him you wanted to leave and try bein with another guy

unless this guy is brad pitt you need to pack it in and show some loyalty you would not like it if your bf fell for some girl!

What is a hudge?

huge?