about being an ugly guy?

You don't strike me as being ugly. Who knows what those girls were thinking? Don't worry about 2 girls who don't know you. Do your family and friends like you and think you're OK? They are the only ones who matter.

It may be that you are unsure of yourself, and perhaps lack confidence. If you sit in on a bench a busy shopping centre or high street, just watch people going by. Almost every person is "average" looking, nothing spectacular, yet nothing unattractive. And there is nothing wrong with being "average". All those people going past will be going about their lives, without a thought for anyone else. They won't all be looking at you or judging you, and many of thosee people will feel exactly the way you do.

Hi, I get that all of the time. Girls treat me differently. They have a glance at me then they look away, whereas they will eye a guy up and down if he's good looking (even if he is made up of half the substance I am). Also, when I have walked down the street drunks, or simply rude people, have called me ugly. And I assume it happens all the time, because generally peoples' opinions are quite similar. Maybe you asked this question for reasurance, but I am afraid I cannot say "you aren't ugly" or "it's all in your mind" because what authority do I have to say that? I have never met you. Instead, I will provide you genuine reasurance. I promise you, with all my heart, that it is possible to find someone you are attracted to just the way you are. In spite of these ignorant people that have damaged me emotionally, I have fallen deeply into a reciprocated love with three different girls (at different times!) and I keep pushing forward.

I'm ugly as home made sin, or so I've been told. I married a great looking woman, who I divorced after 10 years of marriage.

To make a long story short. When women look at you, smile and say in a very friendly voice, "How ya doing?"

That shows confidence, and confidence will get you further than looks any day of the week.

You let some strange girl intimidate you and make you feel bad. Why? She didn't say anything bad to you. You just assumed that she was judging you. You can't read her mind so you don't know what she was really thinking.

You made yourself feel bad. Quit doing that.

she might of had her reason to stare, the same way you would of had your reason to stare back..."What the hell are you looking at?!" type of stare....I'm a female and I dont think she was staring at you because "your ugly" atleast I dont, if I'm out at a store and see a facially challenged person I dont think "Ugh! he is so ugly I'll just stare and roll my eyes" Like someone else said, build up on your self esteem and let me tell you something, people who are gonna judge you over your looks whether THEY like them or not...are not worth your precious time.

I think you're probably reading too much into it. Maybe she's just a rude *****.. people stare for no reason sometimes

get some self esteem

hi i get those looks at school and i feel so small and it sometimes upsets me and even sometimes ruins my day but i now know that they mean nothing to me and so what if they think i am ugly , there are so many more people who are more ugly! so don't let her put you down! I bet your really nice and cute! xx Just ignore her.

I just ignore it. People like that aren't worth getting all worked up over

You should have just looked at her like what's your problem, sister? Usually, if I get those looks from somebody, I ignore it. Who cares what they think? They don't pay my bills.

You should have asked her if she wanted a signed photo of you - if she said who are you then reply if you do not know I won't tell you - would bug her for a while!