pain during or after intercourse?

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sometimes not all the time when me and my bf have intercourse it feels like he has hit something.(guessing my cervix) and when he does i cant enjoy it anymore and sometimes afterwards if hurts when i pee well i mean the pressure i feel on inside. i know its around my cervix area and it hurts for days sometimes. like i said not all the time but sometimes. could he be hitting too hard at my cervix. hope not cause i do like it kind of hard and rough. I tease him that it is his size cause he is well endowed. please any suggestions would help. ps all my pelvic exams come up fine so no problems there.

lindasdolls · Accepted Answer

if you have been checked by a doctor,  everything should be fine.  the only thing i can suggest is not to have such hard passionate sex. maybe after a while when you get use to his penis maybe it won't hurt anymore.  size can make a difference. start off slow then speed it up and see what happens.  have a couple of drinks to relax you a little,  then you won't feel any pain. maybe you have to relax and try not to tense up every time you have sex,  that could be a very good part of your problem.

Anonymous · Answer

Try some different positions.
Some sexual positions may be more rough on you than others.
I experience a very similar thing when my cervix gets hit too hard and am unable to continue having sex.

Have you tried being on top much? I've found that this is much better if you have a lot of pain during intercourse. 

Just try some different positions and see if any of them are better for you.

Anonymous · Answer

maybe hes too big for you. or ma bey while you were doing it hes very large and he hit your cervix. or somehting sensative.

boy O boy · Answer

try using some lubricants??

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