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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Ladies, do you think that if a guy says "okay" yeah" "sure" or other things like that...?

Do you think he doesn't care if you try to talk to him or whatever?

Or do you have like some Psychic thing in you that makes you wonder if hes just shy and doesn't really know what to say or whatever

XD lmfao

Is it like a bad thing if a guy says that? even if he does or doesnt like the girl or whatever IDK anymore stuff to say

goodnight ladies and gentle...man

I am a boy

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Hmmm...

    I usually think they're either shy or they're bored with me or I think they're busy or well i think alot of things >_<

    X3 how come you always dont know what to say when your in the middle of saying smthng XP

    anyway..

    I dont think its a bad thing but it might give us the impression that they're bored with the convo or something. If I know his shy then i dont mind otherwise I might get annoyed =/ depends on what tone of voice they use when they say it.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you are generally a shy person than girls will not think that you are being mean or dont care they will probably get that you are just shy. Try and be nice when you say these things and if you do like a girl try and open up a little more so that she gets to see the real you and it will make it more obvious that you do like her! Try and smile at least when you say things like "okay" cuz it will make it seem more sincere :) good luck

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Depends on the guy. This one guy I know has deep blue eyes and goofy grin, and is freakishly gorgeous... so I would probably hyperventilate and attempt to say hi back. I'd probably come up with a muffled squeak instead, but hey. If it was a guy friend, think about how cool they look today with their failed version of an emo fringe and how awesome they are in general. If it was some random... "WTF?" that's the reaction. If he's hot - then "omg... is he talking to me?"

  • 1 decade ago

    I hate that and it's kind of annoying, especially if you've gone in-depth about something and the only response you get back is ''okay". It makes me think the guy is either bored with my conversation or isn't paying attention to what I'm saying in the first place. Then I get irritated and start replying back the same way. Why waste conversation on someone that doesn't care or isn't listening to you anyways?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If he's shy, I can understand. Even when I first meet someone, and the dude's like that, I try not to be judgmental and just think "Huh, maybe's he's shy." Or something like that lol.

    Or maybe he just has something on his mind and he can't focus on what the person is saying, ya know?

    Usually, if they seem out of focus I ask the person what's on their mind.

    Everyone can get like that. Like on the phone there's those "awkward silences." >.> <.<

    If you ever have one of those moments, instead of saying "okay", "yeah", or "sure, be like "yeah, because -- yada yada yada." You get me? Like if she says "how was your day?" you can give her a long reply, instead of just giving a dull reply 'cause then she'll be doing all the talking and if you just say okay, yeah, or sure, it'll sound like you're not interested in the conversation. Then you ask her. And you go back and forth in the conversation.

    Goodnight. XD

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Funny you ask this. XD I'm starting to wonder. It depends.

    But some guys are just like that and shy. Other are just blowing them off. It depends on how the conversation is going and what's being talked about.

    i.e.

    Like... I'm trying to ask this kid something and he goes whatever, sure, yeah. ok. and like i thought he was just shy at first because or friendship got strange and we'd blush. but now suddenly it hit me. No, he just doesn't care. Because slowly our friend conversations stopped and it just turned into homwork convos.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hii Chu!

    I hate that...It seems like they are either not even listening to me or that they don't care about what i'm saying to them.

    But sometimes I think that he's just really shy and doesn't know what to say because I said something that he's uncomfortable about, I don't think that thats a psychic feeling though lmao :P

    See Ya~

    Source(s): Kit x Kat~
  • 1 decade ago

    ok well im a teenage girl so you can trust my opinion. k well if you say okay yeah or sure that just means your not intursied in the girl so if they keep coming back than they really wont give up until you tell them to stop bugging you. but if you say it in a way that makes you sound excited like " Yeah sure!!" then they think you care but if you say like "yeah sure." then they think you really dont want to talk to them.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yeah usually shows no interest in the conversation or the topic or could be mad about something. It definately depends on the situation though.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I do not mind.

    It is all in the tone of voice though....that is where it matters the most. The WAY it is said. And the context.

    It can be very friendly, matey or just downright dismissive.

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