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it sounds like he does like you but he is scared that things will change (how open you guys are) that you'll be different towards him in a way. i think you should give him some space and let him think of what he's missing (you miss or want what you don't have!) so you can't make him come back to you but you can wait a bit to see what he concludes of the situation. if you guys did things together then he will start to miss you and realize that you were a big part of his life but the main thing is that he has to realize this and not be told that he should like you etc. don't get mad at him either bec that doesn't help any situation. all you should do is wait (about a week i know that's really hard but you have to put effort into it ) and see what he does about this situation, if he doesn't like you (sorry to say) you might be able to have a good friendship and try at a later date. then he will come to this conclusion all in all he has to make up his mind.... there might be other reasons why he's doing this. he might because he doesn't know why you like him (self coniscence ) or that he thinks he has to hide something (something close to him) from you and he doesn't want to be open yet all in all you should just let him be (you can talk to him but i advice that you don't try his boundaries yet let him figure things out ) and if you truly love him you should let him go (allow him to have his time) and if he comes back you know your answer :) if not it wasn't meant to be and i know the feeling of your heart being ripped out but you can also talk to him after he has made his decision and inquire about why he made that decision. i think if he comes back you should still allow him to settle and still ask him why and what happened even if you bf and gf in the end (to give you a bit of insight). but i strongly suggest you let the waters to calm. so good luck and give him space and time don't feel like you have to force him into a relationship with you. because if it goes badly and he feels you forcing him he might not be able to still be friends with you due to bad feelings. also on your part you have figure out if if he is worth the wait or to move on becuase relationships really change your life. good luck

Well, my guess is that you guys are just facing the wonderful (sarcasm here) teen thing known as: Infatuation. This is the basically the extreme attraction and joy members of a couple feel with one another. This feeling, obviously, won't last forever. Ask just about any married couple.

Throughout your time as a teen (assuming you are a teen) you will truthfully probably come across this quite a bit. My suggestion would just to be careful when you get interested in a guy. Before moving forward with him at all make sure you two really care about each other and are not just facing temporary infatuation.

I probably haven't been much help on this, but either way I'm sorry that you're having to go through this. Hope things look better soon.

I've been in a similar situation. I'm not sure how old you are but I'm 21 and dealt with a lot of guys like that. From what it seems he liked that you were around, and it seems that he liked you the same way you did but only for a little while (guys change their minds just as much as us girls do). But it never went anywhere, it happens. Yeah its going to suck but if this guy REALLY wanted to be with you he would make it happen. If thinking about him puts you on the verge of crying you really need to distance yourself from him. You can also try telling him how you feel and if he doesn't reciprocate the feelings, tell him that you don't think you can hang out/be around him for a while until you get over it. If he respects you as a friend, he will give you the space you need.

Sorry its not working out how you want it to!

Maybe he drew away from you because he really needs to think about where things are going. Even though they don't make it obvious, guys think a lot about stuff. It sounds like he really liked you if he devoted so much time to you. I understand your pain. But try not to put so much of your heart into something that isn't established yet. You all are still friends, not bf and gf. I know this is easier said than done, but try not to think about that much. If it's meant to be, it will happen

Hope this helps!

I think the boy is interested, however, if he really wanted to date you bad enough he would ask you out. I think his interest has alterior motives. He is looking for sex, and wants no strings attached. Because of how you feel for him, strings are attached. He does not want to deal with that. He may not be mature enough. The yeah I guess so, tells me alot. Just be friends with this boy, he will end up breaking your heart, if it gets physical between yourself. The one worthy of your virginity is the one whom asks you to be his wife. Virginity is a gift, and it can only be given one time and then never again. Make sure when you do give it, that you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. Then your gift is truly given to the right person. I hope this helps you. Good luck.

At the beginning of every relationship, everything is like you're in paradise. You talk a lot every single day, every hour and every minutes. but there is a point where you get used to it and need a a little break. it's not that he's doenst like you anymore but he just needs his own space. if he's talking to you, he still likes you. Dont worry

ok i feel about the same way for this guy bt we started talking last year. i thnk dat he feels the same way, that ur not in to hm anymore soo he stopped trying. try to bring up the subjuect and just txt call or email hm more at times.

to get over hm u could try to go out to the movies bt not a romantic film just a comody or horror film, or u could go to the mall with LOTS of friends and seek out other guys. go up to any cute fuys and get their number or email or myspace/facebook thngy mcjiger.

i feel the same way bout this guy bt we nvr talked about that toeachother we are like bro and sis and thats hard for me.

i hope my advise helped you!!

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I think that you should be up front with him and let him know how you feel and find out how he feels about you. Once you find this out you can either move on and find another guy or move on with him and have a relationship with him. I think you should find out how he feels about you first before you tell him how you feel because if he doesn't feel the same about you, you might get your feeling hurt more by letting him know how you feel about him first hope this helps.

heyy,

so the same thing happened with me over the summer. it took me a while to get over it, but i did enentually. you just have to find another guy even though it will be really hard. you could talk to him also. you could be like "why would you do that? i thought you liked me...and you just screwed me over."

hope i helped :]

Tell him that your confused and that he sending you mixed messages. Tell him straight forward (if you can) that if he likes you, to stop ignoring you, and if he doesn't, to tell you to your face so you can move on. Boys can be immature most of the times and its really stupid, I know. Good luck!