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A question just for the men.?

If you're having sexual relations with a woman you know is married, and she has made it clear that it's "just for fun", do you ever start getting possessive and controlling? If so, why?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    No. I think that a man should know what the situation is when he gets in a relationship such as this. It is wrong for him ot get possessive an d controlling because it is a relationship just for fun. If he gets possessive and controlling well there goes the fun. I think maybe if he does get possessive and controlling maybe his marriage is the same way!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sex is a way of bonding with another person so it makes sense that a bond would happen. We all need a sense of connection to someone, and if one person only wants 'fun' and the other starts to get serious, it's no longer fun because someone is going to get hurt.

    I don't get possessive or controlling because it's a misdirection of energy. And I only sleep with one married woman ;-)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You mean possessive and controlling in bed. Yes I will. Private life stuff forget it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If your banging a married woman and she told you up front, it's only for fun and you do get possive or controlling. She will be droping you like a hot potato. Just do as she says and enjoy the pussy, just for fun.

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  • No, you have to obey the rules of that game and not try to supplant the husband she is cheating on, she'll only leave you for a lover who understands the rules.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yes men do that. starts off as a fling then they start having feelings and forget about the imaginary lines and boundaries.

    women to the same thing. when you commit adultery there are risks and that's one of them.

    i'm not a man but it's really common sense.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

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    It's physical as a result of chemical bonding that takes place during sexual relations. Don't screw around with a male you don't plan to stay with.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Its part of the fog that you are in when you are deceptive and in an affair.

    Source(s): survivinginfidelity.com
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ill tell you what to do in bed Baby. And how to dress.

  • noooo

    its a game for fun.

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