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ladyusc229 asked in HealthWomen's Health · 1 decade ago

Negative tests, 3 weeks late.. what do I do?

So, basically I am 3 weeks late. I went to the doc after 4 negative HPT and results were still negative when tested by the doc. Doc says come back if you haven't had your period in 2 weeks. I've NEVER missed a period and I ALWAYS have the worst cramps and bloating before my period. Now I just feel fat and bloated, achy especially in my lower back like crazy.. nausea, some diarrhea but mostly constipation and just blahhhhhhh.. I keep telling myself I'm not prego and I've tried every way in the world to relax and still no period. Baby's daddy told me way before I was late that I was pregnant and it wasn't until I realized how late I was that I started to think I was with my symptoms. Even my mom has said something to me before she even knew I was late.. that wierds me out! What should I do? My last test was last week at the doc.. Our method of "birth control" was withdrawling so we all know how well that doesn't work..

Update:

I'm not TTC but at the same time I'm totally ok with having a child. My partner and I are STD free because we were tested before we were sexually active.

Update 2:

Wow, ok and secondly I'm 22 and he's 23 ..fyi

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    why would you use withdrawl as a method of birth control. go see a doctor on monday. you are pregnant. id bet my left arm.

  • 1 decade ago

    Any number of things can cause a natural delay of period, and sometimes your period may even skip a month. Since you've been to the doctor and the tests are negative, you are probably not pregnant. My advice is to remain calm, get tested again in a week or two, and START USING ACTUAL BIRTH CONTROL. What's wrong with you? Withdrawing? That's not birth control, it does not prevent the spread of disease, and it is not smart. If you keep this nonsense up, you WILL get pregnant, and clearly you are not yet responsible enough to take care of a child if you can't take care of yourself enough to use birth control.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    What do mean what should you do? This was you and your boyfriends stupid mistake. Think of the baby's life! Having an teenage mom and prolly no dad. Dont get an abortion. Think about it.Your killing your child your beautiful child. How horrible. How could you live with your self??? Im sorry this is happening to you but next time think before you act. I wish you the best of luck.

    Selena

  • dude UR EGGO IS TOTALLY PREGGO

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