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Advice on a friend I came out to?
Last year, I came out to one of my best friends, Klay. We were "good" friends and we were around each other all the time. Ever since I came out to him, he won't even talk to me. Like I said, it's been over a year & I miss him.. a lot.. as a friend. I like him a little bit -- he's cute -- but nothing more and he has a hard time seeing that I just want to be his friend. So.. should I go to him and see if he's even remotely interested in being my friend or should I just give up and move on? (one MORE friend down the drain)
..Klay is straight.
8 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I would say give it one more shot, explain to him that you have no romanic feelings for him and that you just want to be friends agian. If he can't or will not. that sucks,but thats life and then move on to some one who can exept you for who you are. Good luck
Source(s): Man for 27 years. Army for 7 of them. - 1 decade ago
Well if you really like him that much as a friend then you should try and have a talk with him about just being his friend and thats it. And if he can't accept that then he isn't as good as a friend as you thought he was. Anyway I wish you the best of luck with your situation and I hope that your friend will accept you for who you are.
Source(s): Me myself and i - Anonymous1 decade ago
Well I say just try to talk some sense into this kid. You used to be great friends, and just because you might be alittle different makes him never talk to you again? Just reassure that you like him as and a friend and you always will, and if he doesnt accept you then what kind of friend would he be anyway?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
If he's not going to accept you, find new friends. But if he will accept you and just needed time, then start hanging out again.
- 1 decade ago
You should, I mean maybe he has the wrong idea, that you only came out to him as a symbol that you wanted to be with him.
- ambientdiscordLv 51 decade ago
have you made an effort to stay friends or did you just take off and hide? if it is him just purely rejecting you then you should just say -oh well- and move on.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
hellz nah dude!! never give up on a friend maybe he was just shocked but you have to go to him and try everything you can to get him back!!