Where has my period gone?

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Hi, I am seeking some serious advice. I am an 18 year old female weighing 139 pounds, and I am 5'8. 

My last starting day of my period was January 20,2009. Itis now two months later, and I have not had a period.

I am sexually active, HOWEVER I am in a long distance relationship, and the days that we did have sex(protected, and he ALWAYS pulls out, even though we are already using protection..we use double)..anyways the days that we were sexually active were as follows...

January 17
I then had my period on the 20th...

Then, we were sexually active again on February 14, and my period did not come on February 16... Once again on February 14 we were PROTECTED AND HE PULLED OUT.

Here is the problem, there is no way that I am pregnant as you can clearly tell.

My conception days would have been from Jan 30-Feb 7..but I did not have sex in that time frame...

I have had increased discharge, where my underwear is soaked...
I have also had back aches.

I am very puzzled, and I am the type of person who would rather not consult a doctor because I can be a nervous wreck..

I did think it was just stress but now I am on vacation relaxing, and nothing has happened.

Please help me!

Cebsme · Accepted Answer

A couple of things you have to remember.  Birth control is only 99.9% effective in the best of conditions.  That means taking it everyday, on time and not doing anything that may cause it too lose its effectiveness, ie some antibiotics.  The other thing is there is always at least a small chance that you could get pregnant when ever you have sex.  Sperm can live in your body for up to five days, you can ovulate earlier or later than you think you will.  

If I were you I would get pregnancy test, it will at least easy your mind to know one way or another.


My niece and nephew love them so much are birth control babies.Conceived while their mother was on birth control consistently for 6 months.

hermione_speaks · Answer

missed periods happen once in a while, especially if you're stressed. How about a pregnancy test from the drugstore? cheap, and it would give you complete peace of mind. I only say this because increased discharge can be associated with pregnancy. Stranger things have happened.

WhyMe? · Answer

I'd advise taking a pregancy test just in case.
There is no such thing as not becoming pregant while sexually active.

It is embarresing to see a doctor, but its better than being uncomfortable all the time.

? · Answer

It relatively will depend on the puppy however the usual warmth cycle for a puppy lasts among 21 and 28 days. The puppy does no longer bleed the complete 28 days just for the primary 14 days or so then the blood will reduce.

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