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Guys plz! Are guys at clubs only looking for a good lay?

When I go to clubs with my friends, sometimes I'll dance with some nice guys who usually don't try to pick me up, just wanna dance. Then there are the guys who think they're all hot and say they want your number, "just to get to know you" and then when you say no, they keep trying to convince you by saying they just wanna "be friends".

Do guys honestly think that being being pushy is sexy?

Are there some out there actually wanna be friends?

Do they think they'll find a girlfriend this way or are they just looking for a booty call?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    .I totally reject the notion that girls go to clubs to get laid. There are plenty of honest guys and ladies who enjoy the socialising,atmosphere and comradie of clubs.You can easily separate the wheat from the chaff.The guys who are only interested in a one night stand and the ones who treat you with respect.However it's harder to get to know these guys as they aren't "pushy".So with them you'd probably need to see them a few times (at club) to build up a friendship..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Some guys think if they're persistent, girls will give in. Guys don't go to clubs to look for friends. It just doesn't happen. Girlfriend, potentially, but more times than not, they're just looking to get laid.

    You don't go to clubs to find a quality girl who you might consider spending the rest of your life with. It's not that kind of atmosphere. You go to have fun and maybe get lucky.

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    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    im a dash older 23, yet i remembered back than I loved helpful, helpful Non-teasing Humorness female that supplies me interest and socialize with different pals. That final area is definitely how i could them now. yet for the reason that your in highschool, this is the main suitable time to make pals that would final a life-time. the two your companions or purely pals you will adore to the top.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It's entirely possible for honest guys to just be friends. It's easy to spot them in a crowd of guys who as you stated "just want to get to know you".

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  • 1 decade ago

    yes. Maybe friends, but most guys don't look for gf's at clubs

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