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Why is it so hard for me to make friends?
I'm a bit of an introverted person, but these days I always feel really lonely. I find it really difficult to make friends and I think it's my fault. It seems that every time I start having a really good conversation with anyone, I start to feel really uncomfortable about how well we're getting along and I start to shut down. I just seem to have this need to shut people out and I don't even know why. It's like I'm afraid to make friends, but I just don't understand why I feel like this. As a result, I really don't have any friends at all, except for a few people who are really just on a "hi, bye" level. I wish I had people to talk to and share my feelings, but every time I find someone who is being friendly to me, my immediate reaction is to shut them out and I can't control this. Please help-- why am I afraid to make friends? Why is it so difficult for me?
7 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
It is not hard,its just that you have not met anyone who is alot like you yet.You will in good time
- 1 decade ago
I can relate to that. I have the same problem. That's why I am always in front of the computer. I know mine is because I am insecure of what other people might say behind my back. I am scared of what they think of me. And as much as I want to have these fears taken away from me, it only made me more of a shy person.....i dunno. I can relate to you but I can't help you.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Don't worry, God created each human being with different carector. Some of them can easily mix up any one but some of them are very reserved like me. But we have to change ourself but we can't.
But i can only advise you that try your best. After all this is your life.
- ♥ GOD IS LOVE †Lv 51 decade ago
yeah! I felt the same but when I stopped making friends, and started being myself, people started coming to me, so learn to love yourself and respect yourself..... write to me if you really need friends now.... I can be your pen pal at least
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- 1 decade ago
i think u just shy to meet any friend. here a good idea- u must meet ur school or college or neighbor mate. slowly u mix done conversation with them them.
- 1 decade ago
I think you are just scared. You are scared of what other people think and insecure about yourself.
I'll be your friend. =)
Email me if you want to talk.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
hmm well stop shutting ppl out and ull have friends...
